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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 12:30am | IP Logged
....whatever, I think she interfered in the matter  as she thinks of her as sister almost at par with Shauraya. I think , if in Inlaws house DIL just keep themselves to matters related to themselves and their husbands, then through out life they are just going to live a life of strangers with their inlaws....no bonding... just my views.

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@Charu..........totally  agree with what you said...When Naitik was waiting for the right moment, and he had told her that, to speak to G3 and BM, this Akshara amma had to butt and talk.  She could have waited and then spoken to Naitik if he didnt say anything.  And what she said to them, anyone would have misunderstood.  No wonder that G3 got bugged.

Nandini is one unreliable person.  None of Naitik's sisters are there for Aks when she is in trouble and specially Nandini cant be trusted...she behaves according to her mood swings.  So its not like Mohit has said that he likes Nands or so that Akshara has to go and stop them calling ST.
 
She really is digging her own grave by giving her opinion when it is not required...she doesnt seem to understand the people and their ways in her in-laws place.

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 12:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by piyualka

....whatever, I think she interfered in the matter as she thinks of her as sister almost at par with Shauraya. I think , if in Inlaws house DIL just keep themselves to matters related to themselves and their husbands, then through out life they are just going to live a life of strangers with their inlaws....no bonding... just my views.


she's intruding in nandini's life forcefully, even nandini doesn't want these many suggestions ! therez a limit to how much you can intefere in somebody else's life whether tht person is frm ur maayka or sasural! without conforming it frm nandini ke she's ready for the rishta or not, akshara is telling gayitri n bhabhi ma ke nandini will never agree and this boy is not suitable for her? Shocked Shocked fine she cares for nandini but if she does, she must take the right path, tell naitik abt it and talk to nandini clearly what she wants ! therez no point in beating around the bush, it'll be entirely her loss...obviously the family is ALSO concerned about nandini's happiness and she wud not want to go against them, may be that's why she agreed to meet that boy...i'm not saying DIL must not voice her opinions and keep everything to themselves knowing tht something wrong is happening BUT in these sensitive issues, act TACTFULLY so that nobody is hurt and she can explain her POV.. the person who akshara is fighting for, disrespected her elders , tht person turned against her in 1 minute ! but usko kabhi akal nahi aayegi !

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 12:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _charu_

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I am sorry to diverge with forum members today.. but today's epi is a must watch ... There are great many lessons tobe learnt from this....


No. 1 is that no matter what, you are a DIL & not a Daughter and as such you are an outsider to the inner family decision... esp. in joint family, you should confine your role to caring for your in-laws, but not interfer in affairs that has no bearing to your & your husband's life directly...


No. 2, Today Gay3 ma was absolutely right... the whole Aksh putting her oar in came outas if no one in Singhania household cared about Nandini except Aksh... it is after all Nandini's decision, who is adult and can make her decision...


No. 3, Nandini's decision is also well thought out... yes there is 14 year age difference, but if someone can accept you with your handicap, and as you are, it is better than chasing half formed dreams... if there was an already confirmed relationship with Mohit, with promises on both sides, yes it is wrong.. but the situation as it stands.. her feelings are still very brand new, it is more for a person who shows interest in herself without pity for the first time in her life... and knowing how impossible the future is.. sure she should take the way which is open to her....


No. 4, Lavanya situation... yes Varsha is angry that Shourya is praising Layanya.. but getting huffed & puffed and walking around with long face will garner sympathies from everyone except the targeted person... he is rightfully angry that he is being already judged & sentenced even if he hasn't done any crime... A smart woman will recognize competetion and try to be with him more... She should put herself between Lavanya & Shourya... she should accompany him everywhere, start praising Lavanya, befriend her... when Shourya praised her Dhal, she should have asked her for the receipe since MY HUSBAND liked it so much, I must make it for him... be so sweet that your husband would hesitate to look elsewhere... today when he got the choclates, she should have hugged him for thinking of her & say poor Lavanya, she can't eat this, but since I know you willlove me even if I put on little weight, I can eat this etc...


To me this was absolutely an episode showing how not to behave, the pitfalls to avoid, again I come to the conclusion that these 2 are too young to be married...


i so agree with u dear.....a DIL CAN have a say but for that she has to make her place in the family which takes a LOT of time but STILL , she can't expect tht same position which she had in her maayka as a daughter ! if Akshara thinks she can become nandini's lawyer, like she supported Shaurya, she's mistaken ! as a daughter, Akshara cud support Shaurya and Varsha's relationship and make her parents see the reality ! and then, there was no problem with the rishta as Shaurya and Varsha were in love, and the rishta was right frm all respects...I think Nandini is more mature than Akshara, Shaurya and Varsha put together so she can make this decision of her life.

What Akshara did today was unacceptable from every angle..when naitik is not speaking then why did she have to butt in? and even if she cud not stop herself frm speaking, she cud have asked them to take nandini's opinion first before calling shankari tayi and NOT give HER OWN opinion that the boy is not suitable for nandini and she will never agree for this rishta   Shocked obviously that's showing disrespect to the elders , nandini is their daughter , they can never think ill of her...today nandini agreed for the rishta and proved akshara wrong (and bec. of this, they will keep thinking tht akshara is not happy with this and if something goes wrong, sabse pehle she will be blamed) , tomorrow u never know if akshara shouts frm the rooftop that mohit and nandini love each other, and there, mohit and nandini will say that they're not in love !!!!! then what will akshara madam do? Nandini has ditched akshara in the past and she can do it in future also...and if this rishta which ST brought for Nandini is wrong then what abt tht rishta which Akshara is supporting? is mohit the right match for nandu? howz akshara so confident about it?

we have opinions abt everything and everybody but at least see the time & place before expressing them..did akshara ask nandini if she's ready for the rishta before saying ke nandini will never accept it? she was present there when the elders were discussing the pros and cons of this rishta, didn't she hear it? after all this, she did such a big bewakoofi of telling them ke this is not the right rishta for nandini Shocked Shocked Dead may be it's not, have they finalized everything? abhi they were calling ST "baat aage badane ke liye"..obviously they will meet the boy and the family before saying yes ! but no ! akshara has to become the dadi and act as nandini's savior...trust me, nobody will come to HER rescue the way she does it for everyone..she must mind her own business, learn to make achaars properly, she's worth tht only...


I totally and completely agree with both of u.
Akshara herself is inviting more and more problems and getting into them day by day.
She doesn't have to talk about a such a sensitive matter like this.  Thats too when even Naitik is not saying anything.
She should let them meet the guy and then should have decided whether he is right for Nandini or not.
And cann't she understand that Nandini is a handicap (sorry to say this) and its possible only in dreams that she gets a perfect man. 
Cann't she understand that there is no match between Mohit and Nandini (though both of them are in love in future ) ??????????????? AngryAngryAngry
Their age differece (which is there in this rishta too), financial position difference, Mohit's family's attitude etc there are many things which will affect their relationship.
And after everything Only and Only Akshara will be blamed for all this.

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 12:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sssiham

@Charu..........totally agree with what you said...When Naitik was waiting for the right moment, and he had told her that, to speak to G3 and BM, this Akshara amma had to butt and talk. She could have waited and then spoken to Naitik if he didnt say anything. And what she said to them, anyone would have misunderstood. No wonder that G3 got bugged.


Nandini is one unreliable person. None of Naitik's sisters are there for Aks when she is in trouble and specially Nandini cant be trusted...she behaves according to her mood swings. So its not like Mohit has said that he likes Nands or so that Akshara has to go and stop them calling ST.


She really is digging her own grave by giving her opinion when it is not required...she doesnt seem to understand the people and their ways in her in-laws place.


exactly ! and even if mohit confessed his love to nandini, whoz akshara to butt in and stop the rishta frm happening? in tht case, either nandini should talk to her family and tell them tht she wants to marry mohit OR if Akshara so much wants to become a bali ki bakri, tell naitik about their affair and let nandini, mohit, mohit's parents , nandini's parents and naitik's parents decide what's best for them ! what does akshara want? she will convince nandini that mohit loves her and stop her frm doing this rishta, she will convince mohit for the same and refuse any proposals? then she will convince both the families tht since nandini and mohit r in love, we should get them married? Dead marriage ka decision will be taken by elders or akshara?

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 12:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by piyualka

....whatever, I think she interfered in the matter  as she thinks of her as sister almost at par with Shauraya. I think , if in Inlaws house DIL just keep themselves to matters related to themselves and their husbands, then through out life they are just going to live a life of strangers with their inlaws....no bonding... just my views.
 
I think that if you want to give opinions about any matters, you have to develop that bond with the in-laws and that happens in a few  yrs and not months after you are married.  Akshara does not even know Nandini properly to speak on her behalf.  Gradually the DIL and the in-laws start accepting each other and then only do they know enough to speak.  Aks may consider Nandini as her sister and all that, but Nandini does not seem to think beyond herself. 
 
 

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 1:09am | IP Logged
god! wen will akshara learn! a  lady is meant to be seen and not heard!

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 1:40am | IP Logged
I havent watched the episode norr read any update
so dont know what has happened.
 
but some very well said points
 
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