tapasya...

When we write such scenes we should have the truth of the character in mind.

When Jogi and Divya talk to their daughter honestly and straight from the heart, I see the lies in their truth. And I am sure Tapasya also sees it clearly. Politics is not the bapauti of adults. Children are also political animals without voting rights.

So Tapasya is right when she says

"Papa aap jhooth bolte hain…
Mummy aap jhooth bolti hain.."

P. S.

When I shared this post with my first reader, Pratishtha Durga from colors, she wrote:

Anil, I am reminded of this line from the old show Khandaan... It was spoken by the Late Jalal Agha. "Wohh mat karo jo bade karte hain, woh karo, jo bade kehte hain."

I loved that show. It acknowledged the dark realms of the human psyche. It acknowledged that we lie. That there are two selves. That's what Jogi and Divya need to understand. And then they will be able to address the truth and win back the trust of their daughter. Or else...

Tapasya won't grow up into a Divya or a Jogi. She will grow up into another complex entity, the dark realm being fed on the real and perceived lies of her parents and all those around her. And what life would she be equipped for? A life of manipulation and deciet, perhaps. Can we blame her? In an older post, you discussed how our parents mould us, make us who we are. And Tapasya's mould is ready. It doesn't look pretty, does it?

I agree with u here! Tapasya has ben moulded into what she is mostly by evil ani but also by her lying parents! They should have told the truth from the start. Now I feel even more sorry for Tapasya and hope that one day she can earn Veer's love.

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I somehow cannot agree to this view point. If a child truly loves its parents, and does not forget that they are the people responsible for their existence besides responsible for raising them and providing education and all, That child would/should stick to their parents decision without any questioning, because whatever they do at the end of the day, they can't be wrong. That would be a true love of a child towards its parents. Moreover this character is no more a kid she has two men in her life. We can't blamee her parents for this irrresponsible behaviour.

Edited by shivani.chenna - 30 November 2009 at 11:59pm

I wish Tapasya should realize what life she is leading ... and then she changes and throw out Nani out for her Haveli. Tapasya was a nice kid ... but due to Nani's slow poison and het parents ignorance about their daughter ... remember Tej at 1 glance recognized what she is and Veer knows anyways .. but her own parents did noit realized a single bit in sooooo many years????

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come on now guys! dead? that just hurts me to read it! she is a yung girl with a poisined mind

So .. would law leave her without punishment since she is young girl with poisoned mind? does this mean .. if she is still poisoned during her old age she would be punishable .. but not since she is young? hey ...