Depth was missing - Page 3

i know what u mean by "something was missing" in Naitik speaking up.....i'm not sure about u, but i was expecting him to get a little bit worked up and give G a piece of mind...i thot he'll leave the dinner table without eating nything..thoda sa sabko gussa aata hai na bec. G is assuming everything n not listening to their side of the story....nevertheless he spoke and that's what matters...tht came from his heart..that's what naitik is all about.....in future also he wud not want to talk to G & Daddaji that way...he loves his family very much and he wud never want to go against them...everybody here says that he must support Akshara, fight with his family, live seperately, but i dun see that happening soon (and i dun wanna see tht either) bec. firstly Aksh never expressed her displeasure about ANYTHING to him and secondly both of them want to make an honest effort to live upto their parents expectations and carry forward the parampara (in Dino's words) ...now the elders have to understand that these children also have the right to CONTRIBUTE to it if they are a part of it....

i think they're showing it very beautifully & strategically the importance of a FAMILY.....there will always be a difference of opinion but their strength lies in overcoming all obstacles and living like a family....

anji, a big 🤗 to u and Renu for these posts...i'll save them 😊 u've summed up all tht i wanted to say but couldn't find the right words

i agree Renu, he repeated the same mistake of sending aksh to her maayka (without asking her whether or not she wanted to go)

his plan ! OH GOD ! asking Mohit to make an excuse of shopping and later on sending Aksh to maheshwari house....all this ... 😃 looks irritating but when he does it, i think ke he's right frm his point of view..he just wanted to surprise Aksh....it's all dillogical ...but his dil ka logic induces a bug in his mom's brain...

tht happens with me all the time..subconsciously, i sometimes do the same mistakes which i did 5 yrs back..abhi i know everything so well..my MIL, everybody in the family, phir bhi i repeat them n i'm scared to admit in front of them (like naitik did) and it lingers on in my MIL's mind which creates many more misunderstandings...so if Naitik spoke up, it's really worth applauding 👏 not everybody can talk in black and white this way...i wanna say the same thing to my MIL but pata nahi when i'll find the right words for it and the right way so tht she doesn't take it the other way..or she thinks i'm faking it ..i think actions speak louder than the words..

Here, Naitik cleared the air b/w his mom and him..but Aksh and G's MU continues....bec. Aksh never talks to Naitik (or may be she herself doesn't have any idea tht G is thinking the wrong way) ....Now Naitik was able to do this bec. he knows very well how to handle his family..where to apologize and where to react.....but Aksh doesn't know, so with time, woh bhi ho jayega..

Abhi, I learned this lesson from my dad, yaar...its the best kind of bouncer because it goes far without the other person even knowing it😉

Touche, my friend...and big 🤗...I am almost falling asleep here.....

Dear friends,

After re-reading all the posts on this very very interesting thread, and combined with real life experiences- some personal...and some viewed from a distance.........i have come to certain conclusions..........which are entirely my personal opinions(DISCLAIMER 😛 ).........

1)Every husband should be as adorable as NAITIK......
...BUT....BUT.....BUT.......if the cute gestures are causing great misery to his family.......and.....and putting the very target of your cute gestures "your wife" into BIG-TIME TROUBLES............wake-up sid!!!!. 😛

2)The Singhanias cannot be forgiven...even by God (especially CUPID)....for not sending NAKSH on their honeymoon........
....but.....but....but......Mr. Naitik.......you handled the whole thing just the way my 10 yr old would behave.......on being refused a third icecream........Grow-up sid!!!! 😛

3)G3- however devilish 😡 she may seem at the moment..........she is simply reacting to the emotions created by GOD himself - INSECURITY n JEALOUSY.......
..and......and .....and......i think Mr. Naitik is providing enough FODDER for these negative emotions to grow........after all, she's his MOTHER...... she has loved him UNCONDITIONALLY (like any other mother)..........ever since she CONCEIVED him...........now, SUDDENLY, Naitik is pulling the very CARPET (of being woman no. 1 in naitik's life) which she has been proudly standing on since so many years...... from under her very feet.......... SHE IS BOUND TO FALL WITH A THUD......AND A VERY LOUD ONE............it can be a gradual process.......
Understand her, Sid!! 😛

4)And last but not the least...........all the dinos of DJ Land.............work hard.....you may all get promoted to Grade 1 from KINDERGARTEN ......😛

TEACH THEM A LESSON, SID.......... 😛 .....

.....but only after YOUR GRADUATION....... 😛

great posts, everyone.

but it really is a commendable fact that not once has akshara complained to naitik about any of his family members. 👍🏼