Originally posted by Shirley
since da topic is not closed, i think dat it depends, if
da parents like the boy/girl dat their child has chosen, then it's ok,
but if u have a luv marriage against yur parents' wish, then it cant b
successful, i no dat, although i'm not married, but i have seen mostly
arranged marriages have succeeded though π
No Shirley you are mistaken about love marriages not working . I had a
love marriage and most of my friends did too . The "working " of a
marriage has nothing to do with love or arranged . Once you are married
it all boils down to the same things - adjustment , understanding ,
trust etc !! Either marriages can fail if these things don't exist .