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I think the desire for monogamy stems from jealousy. People feel possesive and don't take the idea of sharing too kindly. To stamp their exclusive ownership over their partner people came up with innovative ideas like walking 7 times around a fire pit or kissing someone in front of a room full of people or something else altogether and then named it as marriage.
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Some point I would like to say marriage is against nature.....You can be certain only of this moment that is in your hands. ....All promises for tomorrow are lies -- and marriage is a promise for ur whole life, tht you will remain together, that you will love each other, that yu will respect each other till your last breath...I dont know its possible or not
Hold sombodys hand -- a friend or a stranger. Don't wait that you will only love whn the right person happens...... Then the right person will never happen. Go on loving. The more you love, the more is the possibility for the right person to happen, becos your heart starts flowering.... And a flowering heart attracts many bees, many lovers.I think I posted earlier that In fact society should create all barriers possible for marriage and no barrier for divorce...... Society should nt allow people to marry so easily. The court should create barriers -- live with the woman for two years at least, thn the court can allow you to get married. Right now they are doing just the reverse. If you want to get married, nobody asks whether you are ready or whether it is just a whim, jst becos yu like the nose of the woman.or you like the a$$ of the women, or you like other parts lol... What foolishness! One cannot live by just a long nose/a watever Aftr two days the nose/ other will be forgotten.
But its we should approve more realistic with life, more prose. And marriage itself never destroys anything. Marriage simply brings out whatsoever is hidden in you -- it brings it out. If love is hidden behind you, inside you, marriage brings it out. If love was just a pretension, just a bait, then sooner or later it has to disappear.I believe marriage simply is an opportunity, so whatsoever yu had to bring out will come out. I am not saying that love is destroyed by marriage. Love is destroyed by people who don't know how to love ,how to not use it....
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