Originally posted by _charu_
what i learnt from yrkkh was that I'm in a muchhhh better position ..contrary to what i used to think earlier that dukh ka pahaad had fallen onto me after marriage......and i learnt what should "not" be done, where i should "not" react....i think that's the biggest reason why the female characters are that way in yrkkh...they are weak but they try to overcome all problems and move on, just like we do in real life...
We're wrong if we think Sunaina's opinion was not asked ..Omi clearly asked her & she gave her acceptance ..I like this track actually....It's a fact that so many couples live with each other just for the sake of their children or society pressures but a point comes where the marriage breaks down ..yes, they cud have given us a better reason..but i can conclude that communication is very important in a relationship and silence and suffering can be disastrous....everybody has to compromise but not to this extent....
Varsha's case is a bit silly.....but it's a reality (i'm sure all married women will understand this) that after marriage, a girl is under a lot of pressure frm her in laws to produce babies..frm some weird logic they think that if they delay the baby then the conception is difficult as the time passes by...Varsha is very young and she can wait, specially when her husband is supportive......
Akshara, we have yet to witness her journey so i'll not comment...she's a strong willed, clean hearted girl..She can handle her family brilliantly....but she must continue her studies ..I wanna see her growth frm a girl to a mature lady..jus like Naitik....frm a baby boy to a mature man....
Charu, great observations as usual...I must say watching this show has made me aware of the freedoms I take for granted as a married woman in a nuclear family...I have never experienced what it is to live in a joint family: my mom was not married into one, and I did not marry into one, either...For me, this show gives some interesting insight into what that dynamic is like. And you are right, the pressures on girls like Varsha and Akshara who are married into a joint family are much more than for someone like me...
If the creatives cut back on the melodrama surrounding the daily MUs, the buckets of tears, injected more romance in the lives of the two newly wed couples,ShaVa and Naksh, and gave some of the characters more purpose, YRKKH would indeed be a very good, realistic mirror image for thousands of families in India and around the world... I know...its wishful thinking!!!!
Edited by Nandalala - 14 years ago