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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:35pm | IP Logged
Often children studying abroad do not want to come back home as they are comfortably settled to the life style there. Sometimes if  they  go overseas, they may not come back at all and the parents may hardly see them. Most parents  prefer their  daughters to study locally rather than going overseas or somewhere too far due to several risks;  whereas for boys it is not so bad.  I think it makes sense.

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:41pm | IP Logged
Arrey re, yeh to ulta ho gaya. Keep the boy close by. Ladki to shaadi ke bad parayi dhan ho jati hain. So if she becomes paraya earlier no problem. But boy, boy has to be with you to be budhape ka sahara. My theory is ladki ko jaane do, ladke ko apne paas band rakho. LOL

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Arrey re, yeh to ulta ho gaya. Keep the boy close by. Ladki to shaadi ke bad parayi dhan ho jati hain. So if she becomes paraya earlier no problem. But boy, boy has to be with you to be budhape ka sahara. My theory is ladki ko jaane do, ladke ko apne paas band rakho. LOL
 
Ha ha. But the mother needs a good friend, isleye ladki to jeevan saathi hai na ?LOL
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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by return_to_hades

Arrey re, yeh to ulta ho gaya. Keep the boy close by. Ladki to shaadi ke bad parayi dhan ho jati hain. So if she becomes paraya earlier no problem. But boy, boy has to be with you to be budhape ka sahara. My theory is ladki ko jaane do, ladke ko apne paas band rakho. LOL
 
Ha ha. But the mother needs a good friend, isleye ladki to jeevan saathi hai na ?LOL


Then raise the guy to be gay. Then mother and son can discuss make up and girl stuff. LOL
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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 10:04pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by return_to_hades

Arrey re, yeh to ulta ho gaya. Keep the boy close by. Ladki to shaadi ke bad parayi dhan ho jati hain. So if she becomes paraya earlier no problem. But boy, boy has to be with you to be budhape ka sahara. My theory is ladki ko jaane do, ladke ko apne paas band rakho. LOL
 
Ha ha. But the mother needs a good friend, isleye ladki to jeevan saathi hai na ?LOL


Then raise the guy to be gay. Then mother and son can discuss make up and girl stuff. LOL
 
The mum loves the son more, but the daughter loves the mother more.
A son may provide financial assistance but men generally do not have the depth of feeling and are unable to provide the same level of emotional comfort.
Your proposal of being a Gay might provide a solution perhaps.LOLLOLWink
 
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 3:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Often children studying abroad do not want to come back home as they are comfortably settled to the life style there.
Yeah more freedom, less dealing with In-laws
Sometimes if  they  go overseas, they may not come back at all and the parents may hardly see them.
Chalta hai, jo gaya woh paraya, jo wapis aya woh apna
Most parents  prefer their  daughters to study locally rather than going overseas or somewhere too far due to several risks;  whereas for boys it is not so bad.  I think it makes sense.
Save the money for Dowry
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 3:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by chal_phek_mat

Originally posted by Summer3

Often children studying abroad do not want to come back home as they are comfortably settled to the life style there.
Yeah more freedom, less dealing with In-laws
 
Out laws are more dangerousLOL
 
Sometimes if  they  go overseas, they may not come back at all and the parents may hardly see them.
Chalta hai, jo gaya woh paraya, jo wapis aya woh apna. Hmm they should bring home a bride.
 
Most parents  prefer their  daughters to study locally rather than going overseas or somewhere too far due to several risks;  whereas for boys it is not so bad.  I think it makes sense.
Save the money for Dowry. Big dowry rich son in lawLOL
 
 
Someone I know has a daughter that went overseas to study and never came back;  once a year she does visit to ensure the dad leaves her something too.
 Whereas his two sons completed their studies overseas and now live with  him; one is a doctor and the other a Lecturer.
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 5:01am | IP Logged
Studying overseas is not bad, Its good, BUT Children have to be under good guidance !! Approve

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