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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 11:00am | IP Logged
LOL
 
 
I think the best answer to this question is marry someone who truly respects you.
 
Love is nothing my friends. You love one today, you would love someone tomorrow as you dont love someone from your mind but from your heart and heart can be indecisive at times lol. Now there is nothing wrong in it but when we talk about a lifetime of commitment then I think the mind should have a little role in it too.
 
The things that your heart fells for are found among many i.e. many are good looking, many will please you with fancy words, many will impress you with their intelligence, many will come up with their 6 packs and many will spread their arms and tell you how much they love you, many would even sing tujhe dekha to yeh jana sanam and many will praise you and your beauty as if there is no better looker than you and make you feel so good about yourself. Some will melt your heart too

Yes there is no shortage of such filmi characters and situations these days ..what I find missing however are people who truly respect girls and are not just into looks etc. Those who promise less and do more. To me that is more important than any love out there..once you find that in someone then feel free to go for looks, love or any other thing that you want in your ideal hsuband.

Finally, do not take my message and generalize it to all girls as it was intended for those who believe too much in love etc. Obviously I know many already do what I said and there are many who have even better answer than what I suggested so keep in mind that it was for certain people.
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 11:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by karandel_2008

I have a friend who used to fall in love (one sided) with a new girl every other month.

No news from him since long time. But I think he will be very happy to see that  many people  prefer to get married with "the one that loves you". Wink
so he is "the one"? Wink
Send that 'namuna' over here if u track him down that is , ...He might find his "soulmate" Wink 

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 12:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Originally posted by karandel_2008

I have a friend who used to fall in love (one sided) with a new girl every other month.

No news from him since long time. But I think he will be very happy to see that  many people  prefer to get married with "the one that loves you". Wink
so he is "the one"? Wink--One in manyWink
 
 
 
Did ur friend used to say this shayri......
Arz hey....
Do pal ki bhi khushi na mili to kya,
Hum umar bhar gam ke sahare ji lenge.
Kya hua jo humari girl friend nahi,
Hum aapki girl friend ke sahare ji lenge......WinkTongue


Coincidently my friend is a shayar as well Tongue

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 12:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kuhu.kuhu

Originally posted by karandel_2008

I have a friend who used to fall in love (one sided) with a new girl every other month.

No news from him since long time. But I think he will be very happy to see that  many people  prefer to get married with "the one that loves you". Wink
so he is "the one"? Wink
Send that 'namuna' over here if u track him down that is , ...He might find his "soulmate" Wink 


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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 12:53pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by King-Anu-Lives

LOL
 
 
I think the best answer to this question is marry someone who truly respects you.
 
Love is nothing my friends. You love one today, you would love someone tomorrow as you dont love someone from your mind but from your heart and heart can be indecisive at times lol. Now there is nothing wrong in it but when we talk about a lifetime of commitment then I think the mind should have a little role in it too.
 
The things that your heart fells for are found among many i.e. many are good looking, many will please you with fancy words, many will impress you with their intelligence, many will come up with their 6 packs and many will spread their arms and tell you how much they love you, many would even sing tujhe dekha to yeh jana sanam and many will praise you and your beauty as if there is no better looker than you and make you feel so good about yourself. Some will melt your heart too

Yes there is no shortage of such filmi characters and situations these days ..what I find missing however are people who truly respect girls and are not just into looks etc. Those who promise less and do more. To me that is more important than any love out there..once you find that in someone then feel free to go for looks, love or any other thing that you want in your ideal hsuband.

Finally, do not take my message and generalize it to all girls as it was intended for those who believe too much in love etc. Obviously I know many already do what I said and there are many who have even better answer than what I suggested so keep in mind that it was for certain people.
tc
K
My my my howcum kingy posted in DM EmbarrassedBig smile
Thanks king @bolded lovely analysis i hope koi experience nahi haiTongueanyways well said as everStarClap
@Underlined yea true people r more practicle these days no one go for such thingsEmbarrassed
And don't worry nobody is gonna take you serious people hardly take virtual stuff seriouslyBig smile
Thanks again n welcome to DMBig smile

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahikhan

Originally posted by King-Anu-Lives

LOL
 
 
I think the best answer to this question is marry someone who truly respects you.
 
Love is nothing my friends. You love one today, you would love someone tomorrow as you dont love someone from your mind but from your heart and heart can be indecisive at times lol. Now there is nothing wrong in it but when we talk about a lifetime of commitment then I think the mind should have a little role in it too.
 
The things that your heart fells for are found among many i.e. many are good looking, many will please you with fancy words, many will impress you with their intelligence, many will come up with their 6 packs and many will spread their arms and tell you how much they love you, many would even sing tujhe dekha to yeh jana sanam and many will praise you and your beauty as if there is no better looker than you and make you feel so good about yourself. Some will melt your heart too

Yes there is no shortage of such filmi characters and situations these days ..what I find missing however are people who truly respect girls and are not just into looks etc. Those who promise less and do more. To me that is more important than any love out there..once you find that in someone then feel free to go for looks, love or any other thing that you want in your ideal hsuband.

Finally, do not take my message and generalize it to all girls as it was intended for those who believe too much in love etc. Obviously I know many already do what I said and there are many who have even better answer than what I suggested so keep in mind that it was for certain people.
tc
K
My my my howcum kingy posted in DM EmbarrassedBig smile
Thanks king @bolded lovely analysis i hope koi experience nahi haiTongueanyways well said as everStarClap
@Underlined yea true people r more practicle these days no one go for such thingsEmbarrassed
And don't worry nobody is gonna take you serious people hardly take virtual stuff seriouslyBig smile
Thanks again n welcome to DMBig smile
 
Well to tell you the truth, its for you sis lol.
 
Oh yes I dont have all those things in me so taking my frustation out lol.
 
ok thanks..however i dont belong here. its for intelligent people ...i was checking ur posts and found u are quite active here so decided to post ..interesting topic lol.
 
have fun and see u at srgmp tc, K

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 1:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by King-Anu-Lives

Well to tell you the truth, its for you sis lol.
 
Oh yes I dont have all those things in me so taking my frustation out lol.
 
ok thanks..however i dont belong here. its for intelligent people ...i was checking ur posts and found u are quite active here so decided to post ..interesting topic lol.
 
have fun and see u at srgmp tc, K
Oh thanks even i came here for someone wasn't much active initailly but i'm much addicted to this section nowOuchLOL
Actually i personally wanted you to visit this section i'm glad atleast you came n posted hereBig smileSure cya there Tongue

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 5:24pm | IP Logged
I agree with almost all of what King Anu said, except one thing.

I think respect is the most important thing in genuine love. Its not really love if the two people do not mutually respect each other. Without genuine caring and respect its lust, obsession, affection, crushes, infatuations, puppy love and all sorts of things - but not genuine love thats worth marrying for.

And when there is genuine love you do not need crazy tricks and things to impress each other. You can just spend a quiet afternoon watching TV or reading together or just doing nothing - and feel that you have had the time of your life.

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