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Poll Question: Who should a person marry?

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 3:39am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Neither, daddy se pooch lena. LOL

Honestly, I think it has to be both. Love is a two way street. There has to be mutual love. If the other person does not care for you, the way you do for them - it will be emotionally difficult. Similarly if you do not care for the other person the way they care for you - its emotionally tough for them. And when one person is down, everyone is down.

Although if forced, out of pure selfish reasons I would choose the person who loves me. I want to feel loved.

But in a realistic note, sometimes this love shove can be too idealistic and mushy. On a practical sense the way to pick a partner is not the person you cannot live without, but someone you can actually live with and look forward to it.
So trueClapEmbarrassed
 

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 3:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Khatarnak

Originally posted by kuhu.kuhu

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Khatarnak

So all the action is here

First of all hello  to all my friends

Mahi, Koel, Summer, WA, OBJ, King Anu, Dream, Meena, Baz, RTH, and all of my good friends

Nice topic Mahi, but to me marriage is the biggest gamble of your life

In reality Ishq ka bhoot sab hawa ho jata hai
 
Salam Khaty Bhai. Yes u are right.
Kaisa  bhoot ? LOL
 
Aisa bhoot who is deaf , dumb and blind LOL


Koel kahan hai tu

and yes love is all that LOL
 
A hubby sometimes has to act partially deaf , dumb and blind.LOL
My brother in law advised his son at the wedding:
Even if u are right learn to keep quiet. But if u are wrong then say sorry.
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 5:03am | IP Logged
This is a great topic, left me in crisis, but then 1st option is better, Its better u get love and also try loving the other, rather than don't get love and simply marry the person who may never fall in love with you, But its circle of life basically, if u kno what i mean Wink

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 5:44am | IP Logged
1st option, i prefer being loved than not loved at all!! Embarrassed


Edited by -CaughtYou- - 20 October 2009 at 5:44am

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 6:21am | IP Logged
Actuly I dont wanna marry the person I love...why we distroying our pure love by marrying someone!!......WinkBig smile someone says before...Dont marry the person u love......marry the person whom love's u back...Winkand I believe,its the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition. Smile keep the love....Big smile
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 6:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Actuly I dont wanna marry the person I love...why we distroying our pure love by marrying someone!!......WinkBig smile someone says before...Dont marry the person u love......marry the person whom love's u back...Winkand I believe,its the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition. Smile keep the love....Big smile


So believe me is it then possible to have 2 wives as a result of  option 1 ?LOL
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 6:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Believe

Actuly I dont wanna marry the person I love...why we distroying our pure love by marrying someone!!......WinkBig smile someone says before...Dont marry the person u love......marry the person whom love's u back...Winkand I believe,its the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition. Smile keep the love....Big smile


So believe me is it then possible to have 2 wives as a result of  option 1 ?LOL----Lol Winkno no its my divine love.....Big smileWinku can say unconditional loveSmile
 
 
let me share this joke:-
 
Girl: do you marry me!?Embarrassed
Guy: I want...but ghar main allow nahe karthe!!?
Girl: ghar main kon kon hey....Smile
Guy: Biwi or Chaar bache...Ouch
 
 
 
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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 6:55am | IP Logged
I have a friend who used to fall in love (one sided) with a new girl every other month.

No news from him since long time. But I think he will be very happy to see that  many people  prefer to get married with "the one that loves you". Wink
so he is "the one"? Wink


Edited by karandel_2008 - 20 October 2009 at 6:57am

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