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Poll Question: Who should a person marry?

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 8:39pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by The_Dark_Knight

i can't really say a definite answer but
my view is that u shud marry the person who loves u, coz they love u for a reason and if they love u, u will love them back in the same way maybe not write away but u will

and it cud be that the person u love doesn't love u back

ideally u shud marry someone who u love and who love u back, but its not always that simple


Is that you Bazi?

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 8:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Khatarnak

So all the action is here

First of all hello  to all my friends

Mahi, Koel, Summer, WA, OBJ, King Anu, Dream, Meena, Baz, RTH, and all of my good friends

Nice topic Mahi, but to me marriage is the biggest gamble of your life

In reality Ishq ka bhoot sab hawa ho jata hai
 
Salam Khaty Bhai. Yes u are right.
Kaisa  bhoot ? LOL
 

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 8:44pm | IP Logged
Neither, daddy se pooch lena. LOL

Honestly, I think it has to be both. Love is a two way street. There has to be mutual love. If the other person does not care for you, the way you do for them - it will be emotionally difficult. Similarly if you do not care for the other person the way they care for you - its emotionally tough for them. And when one person is down, everyone is down.

Although if forced, out of pure selfish reasons I would choose the person who loves me. I want to feel loved.

But in a realistic note, sometimes this love shove can be too idealistic and mushy. On a practical sense the way to pick a partner is not the person you cannot live without, but someone you can actually live with and look forward to it.

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 8:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Neither, daddy se pooch lena. LOL

Honestly, I think it has to be both. Love is a two way street. There has to be mutual love. If the other person does not care for you, the way you do for them - it will be emotionally difficult. Similarly if you do not care for the other person the way they care for you - its emotionally tough for them. And when one person is down, everyone is down.

Although if forced, out of pure selfish reasons I would choose the person who loves me. I want to feel loved.

But in a realistic note, sometimes this love shove can be too idealistic and mushy. On a practical sense the way to pick a partner is not the person you cannot live without, but someone you can actually live with and look forward to it.
 
Quite true ideally it should be bothways and mutual.
 
It is said that some men want the wives to listen and follow all their commands, so they need either a maid or a slave.LOL If not a robot.
 

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Khatarnak

So all the action is here

First of all hello  to all my friends

Mahi, Koel, Summer, WA, OBJ, King Anu, Dream, Meena, Baz, RTH, and all of my good friends

Nice topic Mahi, but to me marriage is the biggest gamble of your life

In reality Ishq ka bhoot sab hawa ho jata hai
 
Salam Khaty Bhai. Yes u are right.
Kaisa  bhoot ? LOL
 
Aisa bhoot who is deaf , dumb and blind LOL

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kuhu.kuhu

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Khatarnak

So all the action is here

First of all hello  to all my friends

Mahi, Koel, Summer, WA, OBJ, King Anu, Dream, Meena, Baz, RTH, and all of my good friends

Nice topic Mahi, but to me marriage is the biggest gamble of your life

In reality Ishq ka bhoot sab hawa ho jata hai
 
Salam Khaty Bhai. Yes u are right.
Kaisa  bhoot ? LOL
 
Aisa bhoot who is deaf , dumb and blind LOL


Koel kahan hai tu

and yes love is all that LOL

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Khatarnak

Originally posted by kuhu.kuhu

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by Khatarnak

So all the action is here

First of all hello  to all my friends

Mahi, Koel, Summer, WA, OBJ, King Anu, Dream, Meena, Baz, RTH, and all of my good friends

Nice topic Mahi, but to me marriage is the biggest gamble of your life

In reality Ishq ka bhoot sab hawa ho jata hai
 
Salam Khaty Bhai. Yes u are right.
Kaisa  bhoot ? LOL
 
Aisa bhoot who is deaf , dumb and blind LOL


Koel kahan hai tu

and yes love is all that LOL
 
A hubby sometimes has to act partially deaf , dumb and blind.LOL
My brother in law advised his son at the wedding:
Even if u are right learn to keep quiet. But if u are wrong then say sorry.

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 9:30pm | IP Logged
This discussion reminds me of an old stick figure comic I drew on this forum to explain men. Sorry Summer - photobucket. Please note that the man is deaf, blind, mute.




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