Who should a person marry? - Page 12

Originally posted by: Believe

Am dnt mean anything physical or not talking abt ur body ok...plz......😕😃

Originally posted by: mahikhan

LOL now since you said big legs how she is supposed to know tht you are not talking physically?😛😳

If I said pulling her legs means....did I physically pulled her legs or wat!!😕😉😆

Originally posted by: Believe

If I said pulling her legs means....did I physically pulled her legs or wat!!😕😉😆

Edited by mahikhan - 14 years ago

😉The question - that should you propose marriage, or should you say yes to his/her proposal haunts many of you in relationships. When should you marry? What are the pre-requisites for that? Lets find out.😉😃

The first need, of course, is that both of you love each other. It should not be infatuation or plain old lust, but love. To be in love means, you like to be with that person. You enjoy his/her togetherness. You care for her/him and you can trust that person. Being in love means that you can share your deepest secrets without fear and give and expect support. Being in love means that your object of love is the most important person in your life and you would not like to leave him/her for anybody else. If any of these conditions are not met, it is not love but something else. Oh, yes, one last requirement - your heart should pound every time you talk to your loved or look at him/her.😃

If you are in love and if your partner reciprocates it with the same intensity then the next would be interests. What is common between both of you? If he is a liberal and you are a conservative to the core, life would be a little difficult. We are not talking in political terms, but about attitude and values. If you do not value what he/she values, your relationship will not prosper. If your values say that you must be honest at all times, and his/her values allow lies now and then, you are sure to get into a conflict after some time.😛

The third requirement is life goals. Are you sharing common goals? Your goal may be to earn lot of money even at the cost of family life and his/her need may be to live happily even if money is less, you will again clash. Values and goals are important. They play a bigger role in life after the initial euphoria of love is over. The last need is - are you feeling safe committing to him/her? Are you feeling safe committing or would like to search around more? Once you can decide that all these are in the right place, you should marry. Otherwise, life may be full of acrimony, dissatisfaction and regrets. It will not be a happy marriage but a marriage that has to be carried through. That will give no pleasure. 😃

C89😳

Edited by centurions89 - 14 years ago

I feel that if sum1 luvs u, its likely they will take care of you and protect you frum all evil. However, if you marry sum1 dat U like, its likely that they will probly loosen up with ur relation ship. its hard decision. i mean marrying sum1 u dont feel comfortable with @ first, just cuz u know, u dont like them. but its more important that they like u. thats the thing giving more significance. thx.😊

well, i think basically, ur life's set. its just made perfect for u. but u should still to be safe, try to find out if the person you love actually does love you. then, u would have ur lucky one, and ur lucky one would have you. Simple!😳😃 Edited by lalona - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: DM01

What if the one the loves you is the one that you're in love with?

Originally posted by: lalona

well, i think basically, ur life's set. its just made perfect for u. but u should still to be safe, try to find out if the person you love actually does love you. then, u would have ur lucky one, and ur lucky one would have you. Simple!😳😃

Originally posted by: DM01

What if the one the loves you is the one that you're in love with?

Then there is nothing to worry about 😆

Originally posted by: mahikhan

Aah very well said👏