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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 12:22pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 10:04pm | IP Logged
Well, why Maasa is to be blamed for khajan's plight though not completely are as follow in case the forum has lost sequence of events:
 
1) Khajan pawned the land for sugna's gauna as he wase forced to do this by dadisa's constant taunts on Anandi's poor family
2)Khajan went to maasa for help....agreed she could not have let anyone talk to Mahavir Singh for help....but the least she could have done it to look at Anandi's plight and agreed to loan some amount to her parents which they could have returned later......She refused blatantly.
3) What Anandi did was because she was really moved by her parents misfortune and completely unaware of dadisa's past with Mahavir Singth...on the the top of it no one from her family came ahead to help her parents.
4) instead of helping anandi and her family...dadisa added to their woes by throwing their daughter of the house, when even her grandson was equally responsible for going to MS. infact, she has always treated annadi really bad and come on....nothing can justify her behavior in throwing the beendni of the house in the night
 
i mean i am really surprised that people are justifying maasa's behaviour on the basis of a single adverse event of her life which she had with mahavir singh and where the entire village supported her and got her justice.....Plus what about the atrocities she does with her beendis  and what about the way she pushed basanth to force himself on gehna....

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Posted: 19 October 2009 at 11:02pm | IP Logged
i agree...im surprised that ppl are actually supporting kalyani's behavior. forget anandi...she is the same woman who threw her own sister out of the house when she felt her position is threatened. where did her blood relation go in that case?
whatever happenned with kalyani was bad...but whatever happenned with gehna is worse...she actually encouraged her son to rape gehna. and as for khajan's mistakes didnt he pawn his land to ensure that his daughter doesnt continue to suffer maasa's taunts. when anandi got married to jagya kalyani knew anandi's family's financial status is poorer than hers. yet she keeps taunting anandi for the same. if she had a problem with their poverty why did she get jagya married to anandi in the first place? obviously because if jagya inlaws were rich they wouldnt have tolerated maasa's huge ego.
then for her own ego kalyani could buy the barren lands of the whole village at 2 times the price so as to retain her hold in jetsar. but she couldnt take out a small amount from her endless teasure chest to help khajan buy another piece of land and simply asked them to get lost and expected anandi to forget their troubles. im sure many of us are women here...quiet a few married. so after marriage do u simply forget ur parents and go to them only in times of your own need and ignore them rest of the time? and how are children like anandi and jagya supposed to judge what they should be doing when kalyani clams up about her past and simply says that they shouldnt do certain things because she says so! and why blame only anandi for bringing MS back into her life...jagya is equally responsible too. while anandi is severely punished jagya is simply let off the hook.
and when she got to know anandi's plight instead of doing something abt it she wanted to get jagya married again. finally she told her sons abt her past again not to share her pain but to blackmail bhairon and sumitra to stay put with her. kalyani has definitely turned from grey to black. not sure if it was on purpose or unintentionally. but her actions are definitely not justifiable and its surprising that educated viewers are justifying her actions.

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 12:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kshreya2002

i agree...im surprised that ppl are actually supporting kalyani's behavior. forget anandi...she is the same woman who threw her own sister out of the house when she felt her position is threatened. where did her blood relation go in that case?
whatever happenned with kalyani was bad...but whatever happenned with gehna is worse...she actually encouraged her son to rape gehna. and as for khajan's mistakes didnt he pawn his land to ensure that his daughter doesnt continue to suffer maasa's taunts. when anandi got married to jagya kalyani knew anandi's family's financial status is poorer than hers. yet she keeps taunting anandi for the same. if she had a problem with their poverty why did she get jagya married to anandi in the first place? obviously because if jagya inlaws were rich they wouldnt have tolerated maasa's huge ego.
then for her own ego kalyani could buy the barren lands of the whole village at 2 times the price so as to retain her hold in jetsar. but she couldnt take out a small amount from her endless teasure chest to help khajan buy another piece of land and simply asked them to get lost and expected anandi to forget their troubles. im sure many of us are women here...quiet a few married. so after marriage do u simply forget ur parents and go to them only in times of your own need and ignore them rest of the time? and how are children like anandi and jagya supposed to judge what they should be doing when kalyani clams up about her past and simply says that they shouldnt do certain things because she says so! and why blame only anandi for bringing MS back into her life...jagya is equally responsible too. while anandi is severely punished jagya is simply let off the hook.
and when she got to know anandi's plight instead of doing something abt it she wanted to get jagya married again. finally she told her sons abt her past again not to share her pain but to blackmail bhairon and sumitra to stay put with her. kalyani has definitely turned from grey to black. not sure if it was on purpose or unintentionally. but her actions are definitely not justifiable and its surprising that educated viewers are justifying her actions.

Thanks kshreya.....i would really like to hear other's viewers views on the same...In my mind, this is very pertinent to the storyline of the serial on how do the viewers perceive Dadisa's behavior and actions.

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 1:31am | IP Logged
yes shalgo...kalyani is extremely egotistical and lately she has been more so. the problems she has faced in life might justify certain actions like wanting to avoid mahavir singh or getting angry at the children for letting mahavir singh know where she is. but the rest of her actions are that of an egomaniac taken to satisfy her ego without a thought for what effect her actions would have on the rest of the people connected with her. so i dont see any justification of most her actions. lately though the creatives have been giving hazy messages and twisting situations as per convenience to create unneccessary drama. 

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 1:43am | IP Logged
There is no justification of Kalyani's behaviour what so ever..... am totally agianst justifying her..

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Posted: 20 October 2009 at 9:25am | IP Logged
If Kalyani had explained to the family or Anandi's parents that she did not want to go to Mahavir Singh (and that is understandable), she knew him and he was an enemy, but couldn't tell them why, the children might not have gone. The way she did it,  Anandi's family probably thought that she'd always hated Anandi and was just being nasty.
And the first time Suguna got married, Kalyani actually asked them to buy a gold ring or chain for the son-in-law. Of course he didn't want a repeat. Yes, she thought they had got Bhairon to get the land back, but it's very rude to make such a demand. It was stupid of Khajan Singh to mortgage his land, but this is really common in rural India, a lot of people lose their land to arrange for festivals and weddings.
Now Kalyani is blaming Anandi for Jagya's gambling etc, how can this be justified?

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