Can kids learn thrift from indulgent parents?

Summer3

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Spoilt and wasteful behaviour among kids these days this could be a major problem.

Parents these days have a smaller families and it is quite common to see them over indulge in the kids. This is one practical problem that comes about with growing affluence and mass media communications and the heavy advertising of branded products.

Parents also try to make up for not spending enough time with the kids especially if both parents are working. Their misbehaviour could also be overlooked.

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Its the parents' parents' fault then for not teaching their children to be good parents and then it would be the parents' parents' parents' fault for not being good enough parents to teach their children how to be good parents of parents! - the series can continue LOL

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parents have a greater responsibility towards their kids. Material goods cannot compensate for love & care needed by their children.

Summer3

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Originally posted by clodpolish

Its the parents' parents' fault then for not teaching their children to be good parents and then it would be the parents' parents' parents' fault for not being good enough parents to teach their children how to be good parents of parents! - the series can continue LOL

Cloddy Bhai but the parent was the child in the previous birth to the same person.

Something has to be done to get them out of this Karma Trap.

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Posted: 16 October 2009 at 4:10am | IP Logged

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Its the parents' parents' fault then for not teaching their children to be good parents and then it would be the parents' parents' parents' fault for not being good enough parents to teach their children how to be good parents of parents! - the series can continue LOL

Cloddy Bhai but the parent was the child in the previous birth to the same person.

Something has to be done to get them out of this Karma Trap.

very deep thinking....

well
as far as overlooking the behavior of kid is concerned..
i believe this race of money is the real killer...
parents work day in and day out to pay fee for their children schooling..to get girls married in rich ppl's house...etc...etc..
although every body believe that spending time with kids is the est thing u can give to ur children...
but we children...when we sit to talk to them..what we talk abt..." my friend is going to take Maths coching to crack civil exams..he wud surely get selected",,,,,,,,
to kya kare bechare parents..?

LOL

Summer3

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Posted: 16 October 2009 at 7:34am | IP Logged

Originally posted by Shikhoo

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Its the parents' parents' fault then for not teaching their children to be good parents and then it would be the parents' parents' parents' fault for not being good enough parents to teach their children how to be good parents of parents! - the series can continue LOL

Cloddy Bhai but the parent was the child in the previous birth to the same person.

Something has to be done to get them out of this Karma Trap.

very deep thinking....

well
as far as overlooking the behavior of kid is concerned..
i believe this race of money is the real killer...
parents work day in and day out to pay fee for their children schooling..to get girls married in rich ppl's house...etc...etc..
although every body believe that spending time with kids is the est thing u can give to ur children...
but we children...when we sit to talk to them..what we talk abt..." my friend is going to take Maths coching to crack civil exams..he wud surely get selected",,,,,,,,
to kya kare bechare parents..?

LOL

Sikhoo aapne bilkul sahi kaha.

Poor parents do make a lot of sacrifices for the kids. Love and attachment.

But I hate parents pushing the kids too hard. Also some kids are stubborn like a donkey.

Edited by Summer3 - 16 October 2009 at 7:35am

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Summer3

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Posted: 16 October 2009 at 8:15am | IP Logged

Originally posted by gengarjetty2

hehe when i use my parents money i was very pani paisa minded, but not when usin me own money lolz

but now im mature enough so im not really spoilt :)

Congrats you are a rare breed.

I was not so spend thrift but my mum coughed up cash to pay for my education.

I have paid her back several times and now she claims that she is indebted to me

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