Kaki reacting just like Gopi Dadi Did with Dhaniya

don't you think it's the same?

but i think it's a very good thing for them to show. bc this does happen in real life, and i'm not talking about this circumstance but anything. for example, sometimes we feel the need to defend our "mistakes" because otherwise they would prove that we've been living a lie/mistake this whole time. what we do need to understand, is that at that point we had made a choice. and even if we would now--with better wisdome and understanding--make a different choice, it doesn't mean that our life has been a failed one till this realization. it just means that our outlook and our eyes have opened. and with this opening, we should try to guide others in the right direction. perhaps our choice, our experience, was "fate" only so that we could be a light/diya for others. makes sense? this could be related to the choices we make on our careers, education, relationships, friendships, etc, etc.

what do you think?

i cannot find any reason for interference of kaka / kaki into the life of shava.. it is their life let them decide and lead.. it does not mean that whatever happened in kaka/kaki will repeat.. everyone's life is different from each other, kaka/kaki is  advising as if others around them are fools and creating confusion around ..

decision should be left to shava whether it is good or bad, let them decide.. like varsha rightfully said, one day they have to become parent, why not today.?? which is a right thinking as far as my opinion is concerned.. they are unnecessarily dragging this issue with kaka/kaki, for no reason..

I think they are wrong to start a family when they are not ready.  They have just gotton married and Varsha passed with being 2nd so they should encourage her to study further instead of starting a family so soon.  She has time.  SHe is probably only 18 or 19.

Well actually, to me, they were both too young to get married, let alone bring a child into the world.

I agree with bewafa.

Rajshree is putting too much pressure on Varsha by emotionally blackmailing her. Varsha is not thinking rationally in this case and is herself confused. Its very clear that both Shaurya and Varsha are not ready to take this responsibility. Kaki's past may help Varsha make a right decision.