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Posted: 29 September 2009 at 10:34am | IP Logged
LOL what's that? Agree to everyone though wives shouldn't be forced to have physical relationship with their hubbies this is WRONG.Embarrassed

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Posted: 29 September 2009 at 10:43am | IP Logged

Any non consensual physical activity is abuse. Any non consensual intercourse is rape. That means one spouse can rape another, and even a prostitute can be raped.

 

Many people feel that it is the duty of the wife to satisfy her husband's need. Others feel that physical relationship is a part of marriage and why would it ever constitute as rape. Marriage is not a contractual obligation people owe each other. Two people have come together to share their lives to fulfill each other. That means they satisfy each other when they can, and at other times compromise.

 

There are many times the wife or husband may feel uninterested in physical contact. They could be tired. They could be going through emotionally difficult times or stress with work/life. They crave emotional and intellectual bonding, and more friendly one on one time as a relief from the physical contact. They may be upset at their spouse or the marriage could be on a rocky road. Their partner could be rough, or demanding something they are not comfortable with. In such situations physical advances maybe unwanted. By forcing a spouse to engage in physical contact despite that, the person is disrespecting their spouse and the sanctity of marriage. By forcing physical contact, a person reduces their life partner to nothing but an object for achieving satisfaction.

 

Marital rape is a serious and heinous crimes. It is a crime which unfortunately in many societies gets dismissed, because people are of the opinion that wives have a duty to husbands, or sex is a part and parcel of marriage. Many women live emotionally and physically shattered lives due to marital rape and it negatively impacts children too. While it effects women mostly, men can be victims too. Many men are indeed emotionally or socially blackmailed/forced by their wives to be physical when they are uninterested in doing so. And it's a crime irrespective of whether the person forcing is male or female. This is a serious issue and no laughing matter. Not sure why it would be funny to some.

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^^Very well saidClap

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Posted: 29 September 2009 at 11:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gengarjetty2

best to avoid these sick women who don't want to have sex :)
And what exactly you mean by that???
Are these women not humans???
Should they only do such things?Embarrassed
That's really not fair.

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Posted: 29 September 2009 at 11:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gengarjetty2

Originally posted by mahikhan

Originally posted by gengarjetty2

best to avoid these sick women who don't want to have sex :)
And what exactly you mean by that???
Are these women not humans???
Should they only do such things?Embarrassed
That's really not fair.


I was being sarcastic. LOL I was poking fun at ppl who thot women were born to satisfy them LOL
Really?Tongue
i thought you were thinking the same way as many others doOuch

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Posted: 29 September 2009 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
i agree with everyones pov's on this issue physical relations without permission is considered wrong and can't be considered rape.

from what little i know in islam the husband has to ask the wife before having any physical relation as the wife has to agree otherwise it is considered to be gunnah


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