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Hi.,
I am glad to know that u also do not wish to see gloomy aspects of life on television.After all we see and hear all such stories in and around everyday.Why watch it again.
But for jeevan saathi I had an open mind watching it.,without thinking much about whether such things would really happen .
perhaps that is why I liked it.
With the serial ending on 04.09.09.I wish to post and share my final views of characters.It may be a long one to read but I hope u do not mind it.
I am sorry if u do not like any of this.Kindly excuse me.
Reg.viraj shouting at Ishwar always,m I think Ishwar started all this.Why did he hide big truths from her even when she was so honest with him.Why did he bring her backto her home all of a sudden and put her under mental stress.?
At that time all he had in his mind was that he should take revenge.He did not care about the impact of his sudden change on viraj's mind,
She had complete faith in him before and yet she was deceived by him and so she could not believe in his words or actions completely .She had some doubts after that which was quite o.k.
As they say once bitten twice shy.
Had Ishwar prepared her mentally beforehand she would have understood his motives and actions in a betterway.After all she was a simple girl who loved ishwar.Yet he diid not do that.
Also most women have a natural affinity to their maaykas and it must be said that no loving daughter would wish to see her father insulted in front of her eyes by her own husband (whom she had thought of to be a simple and innocent man)..Leave alone the fact whether the father was good or bad.,and the husband had a just reason for that etc.,
Ishwar had concentrated only on revenge.He agreed to respect his wife's wishes only after she almost gave her life for him.Before that except trying to please her with gifts and trying to talk to her he did nothing much to understand how she must have felt when she knew she was deceived.
Only when his mother-in-law pointed out that a couple cannot always be in the midest of crowd did he realise that viraj was under too much tension .He should have thought of it earlier.,afterall the two were together all alone and very happy.,before they moved in.
Also reg.viraj shouting at Ishwar I think it is all a part of all marriages these days ,unlike earlier times when the wife just stood mute.I really feel once the couple vent out their feelings and sort it out it becomes normal.,otherwise there will be suprressed emotions.,and like a pressure cooker would burst someday.,on a large scale.
Only thing is that one has to exercise caution that nothing goes beyond the limits.,verbally and physically.
personally I feel such fights are healthy as long as they do not separate the couple.,at no point of time should a husband or wife leave each otherbecause of such quarrels.They happen in almost all marriages atleast as far as I know. Once they fight is over they should look into it and give it some time to settle.But Ishwar should not have left viraj abruptly.,again giving a rude shock.
This she mentioned on 03.09.0.9.She was really sweet when she said he could have scolded her ,shouted at her to show his anger.,but he should not have left her.I felt the same too.
On 03.09.09 it was really touching to see viraj asking for sorry and repenting repeatedly.Also Ishwar feeling sorry for being a bit too far in the name of revenge..
Both viraj and Ishwar did not have any ego and felt sorry for their actions.An ego free husband and wife are the success of any marriage.
Finally now that the serial is ending I wish to end the post on happy notes.
1.Male cast was very good.with special mention to Ishwar,neil,father,jignesh.Everyone had a role to play while in many other serials men hardly get variety of characters.Even the servant was good.
2.vaani sharma did a neat and good job as viraj.,i do not know if i am correct I guess this is the first time she plays a solo female lead. Also I think she must have a good knowledge in classical dancing since most of her eye expressions are apt.
I shall surely miss viraj's cute face,.innocent smile,pretty cotton sarees(with no heavy jewels) ,her lust free pure loving and somewhat shy glances,her warm hugs and cold stares to Iswhar.
.I liked her character immensely in the show ,and because of that character I began to like all those who were good to her.
well all good thigs have to end someday or other.Bye jeevan saathi.
This just may well be final post on any topic because I intend to stop posting henceforth on any forum,atleast for a while.
Bye.,and best wishes.,I think we both are more or less like minded.I do not know if I am right.
With lots of love.,
krisshhna.
I am glad to know that u also do not wish to see gloomy aspects of life on television.After all we see and hear all such stories in and around everyday.Why watch it again.
But for jeevan saathi I had an open mind watching it.,without thinking much about whether such things would really happen .
perhaps that is why I liked it.
With the serial ending on 04.09.09.I wish to post and share my final views of characters.It may be a long one to read but I hope u do not mind it.
I am sorry if u do not like any of this.Kindly excuse me.
Reg.viraj shouting at Ishwar always,m I think Ishwar started all this.Why did he hide big truths from her even when she was so honest with him.Why did he bring her backto her home all of a sudden and put her under mental stress.?
At that time all he had in his mind was that he should take revenge.He did not care about the impact of his sudden change on viraj's mind,
She had complete faith in him before and yet she was deceived by him and so she could not believe in his words or actions completely .She had some doubts after that which was quite o.k.
As they say once bitten twice shy.
Had Ishwar prepared her mentally beforehand she would have understood his motives and actions in a betterway.After all she was a simple girl who loved ishwar.Yet he diid not do that.
Also most women have a natural affinity to their maaykas and it must be said that no loving daughter would wish to see her father insulted in front of her eyes by her own husband (whom she had thought of to be a simple and innocent man)..Leave alone the fact whether the father was good or bad.,and the husband had a just reason for that etc.,
Ishwar had concentrated only on revenge.He agreed to respect his wife's wishes only after she almost gave her life for him.Before that except trying to please her with gifts and trying to talk to her he did nothing much to understand how she must have felt when she knew she was deceived.
Only when his mother-in-law pointed out that a couple cannot always be in the midest of crowd did he realise that viraj was under too much tension .He should have thought of it earlier.,afterall the two were together all alone and very happy.,before they moved in.
Also reg.viraj shouting at Ishwar I think it is all a part of all marriages these days ,unlike earlier times when the wife just stood mute.I really feel once the couple vent out their feelings and sort it out it becomes normal.,otherwise there will be suprressed emotions.,and like a pressure cooker would burst someday.,on a large scale.
Only thing is that one has to exercise caution that nothing goes beyond the limits.,verbally and physically.
personally I feel such fights are healthy as long as they do not separate the couple.,at no point of time should a husband or wife leave each otherbecause of such quarrels.They happen in almost all marriages atleast as far as I know. Once they fight is over they should look into it and give it some time to settle.But Ishwar should not have left viraj abruptly.,again giving a rude shock.
This she mentioned on 03.09.0.9.She was really sweet when she said he could have scolded her ,shouted at her to show his anger.,but he should not have left her.I felt the same too.
On 03.09.09 it was really touching to see viraj asking for sorry and repenting repeatedly.Also Ishwar feeling sorry for being a bit too far in the name of revenge..
Both viraj and Ishwar did not have any ego and felt sorry for their actions.An ego free husband and wife are the success of any marriage.
Finally now that the serial is ending I wish to end the post on happy notes.
1.Male cast was very good.with special mention to Ishwar,neil,father,jignesh.Everyone had a role to play while in many other serials men hardly get variety of characters.Even the servant was good.
2.vaani sharma did a neat and good job as viraj.,i do not know if i am correct I guess this is the first time she plays a solo female lead. Also I think she must have a good knowledge in classical dancing since most of her eye expressions are apt.
I shall surely miss viraj's cute face,.innocent smile,pretty cotton sarees(with no heavy jewels) ,her lust free pure loving and somewhat shy glances,her warm hugs and cold stares to Iswhar.
.I liked her character immensely in the show ,and because of that character I began to like all those who were good to her.
well all good thigs have to end someday or other.Bye jeevan saathi.
This just may well be final post on any topic because I intend to stop posting henceforth on any forum,atleast for a while.
Bye.,and best wishes.,I think we both are more or less like minded.I do not know if I am right.
With lots of love.,
krisshhna.
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