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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by Summer3

There was some controversy whereby certain persons in Malaysia , a muslim country , divorced the wife through sms. Now the Govt does not want to recognise such divorces. Apparently it is practised in some countries.
Read somewhere that Saudi Arabia allows it. I doubt they can be that backward.
 
 
 
what if they leave a voicemail "talak talak talak"...after they conference in themaulvi?LOL
 
Looks like it is only one way, this Talak Talak Talak.
The wife cannot use it to divorce the husband.
But I am sure they must have rectified this to make it equitable.
 
Also in Nepal it had been used by some Muslim men, to divorce
and not pay any compensation to the wife.
 
 
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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by clodpolish

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Whats the guarantee that it was the husband only who sent the sms?Confused
To reconfirm the wife can ask him to reconfirm message and identify the name and give passport or other numbers. or other questions like: who is your favourite actress? what do you normally like to eat?

makes for a funny divorceLOL

but why would one divorce through sms? too afraid to do it person or what?

 
Cloddy Bhai be careful as there are some women who aspire to be the second wife or mistress or lover etc. So if the husband is involved with such ladies, then it is very hard for the husband to get out of their clutches. He cannot tell the wife or face her, so he will sms the wife and then throw the phone away.LOL
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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:19pm | IP Logged
Soon we shall have people marrying over SMS, not ever having seen the person on the other side.

However, if the reason for this uproar is judged off of Islam, there is a significant reason for a man saying that he wants a divorce three times. Text, email, or speech, I think it is the intention that counts. I personally think that a person would think twice before texting anything, rather than blurting it out verbally.
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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Whats the guarantee that it was the husband only who sent the sms?Confused
To reconfirm the wife can ask him to reconfirm message and identify the name and give passport or other numbers. or other questions like: who is your favourite actress? what do you normally like to eat?

makes for a funny divorceLOL

but why would one divorce through sms? too afraid to do it person or what?

Cloddy Bhai be careful as there are some women who aspire to be the second wife or mistress or lover etc. So if the husband is involved with such ladies, then it is very hard for the husband to get out of their clutches. He cannot tell the wife or face her, so he will sms the wife and then throw the phone away.LOL

LOLLOLLOLi guess in such a case , the woman should be happy to be relieved of such a husband !

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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:37pm | IP Logged

Forword this SMS ,atleast 3 married persons....Luck will come with in 7 days!!Wink

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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Soon we shall have people marrying over SMS, not ever having seen the person on the other side.

However, if the reason for this uproar is judged off of Islam, there is a significant reason for a man saying that he wants a divorce three times. Text, email, or speech, I think it is the intention that counts. I personally think that a person would think twice before texting anything, rather than blurting it out verbally.
Yes, Poor religion gets blamed for everything.
Often devious people interpret things to suit themselves. 
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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:39pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by clodpolish

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Originally posted by Summer3

Originally posted by clodpolish

Whats the guarantee that it was the husband only who sent the sms?Confused
To reconfirm the wife can ask him to reconfirm message and identify the name and give passport or other numbers. or other questions like: who is your favourite actress? what do you normally like to eat?

makes for a funny divorceLOL

but why would one divorce through sms? too afraid to do it person or what?

Cloddy Bhai be careful as there are some women who aspire to be the second wife or mistress or lover etc. So if the husband is involved with such ladies, then it is very hard for the husband to get out of their clutches. He cannot tell the wife or face her, so he will sms the wife and then throw the phone away.LOL

LOLLOLLOLi guess in such a case , the woman should be happy to be relieved of such a husband !

Yes, but some men are also trying not to pay a fair compensation to the wife.
Personally do u think a man should never divorce a woman, but a woman  may divorce a man.
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Posted: 20 July 2009 at 10:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Yes, but some men are also trying not to pay a fair compensation to the wife.
Personally do u think a man should never divorce a woman, but a woman may divorce a man.

personally i believe a divorce should be a mutual decision based on unselfish reasons ! But i guess religious rules also play a major role in such things....so can't argue much on that.......

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