Love & Sex - Page 3

Sex without love is a meaningless experience, being in love is sexual feeling on its own. If you love someone you want to express it, and sex is expressing the love, i believe to be properly in love you have to be committed to each other, and if your not scared of committing then why should you be afraid of signing the papers? i am against sex before marriage.  Love is something that grows over time..you cant possibly love someone at first sight, thats ''lust''..

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Absolutely. I don't think that a physical relationship is necessary - one can love without being physical. I do not question its existence. What I do question is how limited one's control is and how long that love can go on without maintaining a physical relationship.

But I believe in the power of love, and perhaps I'm being too much of an idealist, but I think that love in its purest form can exist without any other needs.

thats coz u havent been in a relationship. Once a person is in love the desire will come naturally.

Originally posted by: clodpolish

, but sex is necessary after marriage to have babies

Originally posted by: angie.4u

Thats a generalisation !eg gay marriages, infertile couples ..adoption is also a way of having babies, so is IVF ,... cloning.will b here soon .. 😊

ahh ! i was thinking the same just after writing that statement😆

twas just a light statement😆

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

thats coz u havent been in a relationship. Once a person is in love the desire will come naturally.

I think sex and love is a natrual phenomenon...sex is a part of love!..but someone says before Sex is on the minds of most people, especially those who shouldn't be having it....

It's amazing that how we have topics and posts from all aspects of life in DM. When Sarina first created this topic, I was hell bent on betting that this topic would end up in the same way as all others had in the past - ugly fights, name callings and bashings. Though this topic didn't reach its end, I can see some really matured and healthy discussion going on. WA and Xoxo have excellent points. I agree that love in its own is a completely different thing when compared with sex. Even if one were to turn into a asexual overnight (due to medical reasons) - that would cut all his sexual feelings he have gotten within him - that wouldn't stop him from loving the person he used to.

However, love has its category, too. We have a love that we feel for the Nature, God and the Divine. We have love that we feel for the human race. We have romantic love, we have sexual love.
Edited by PhoeniXof_Hades - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: clodpolish

Btw - what about love without sex ?

Do you think it exists?

 

it used to be laila majnu and siri fahad and all those. dont think they had sex. but now its next to impossible to find. in fact many people pretend to be in love to have sex.

Originally posted by: clodpolish

Another thing , is there a belief that exists out there that men are more probable to have sex without love rather than women?thats true.

If there is , where does it stem from?fact is a fact.

Originally posted by: sandya_rao7

in fact many people pretend to be in love to have sex.

True. 🤔