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sugar plum

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 7:17am | IP Logged

why is it that women always have to suffer the consequences of pre-marital/ otherwise sex??? do men have no conscience problems attached to it... it's like the use-n-throw policy... it's just NOT fair...

even if a woman is raped... SHE is labelled as loose, provocatively dressed... shunned by society... and she bears ALL THE TRAUMA... why???

what's your take on this...

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hazelgirl

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 11:04am | IP Logged
well .....how much we say that india is becoming modern..it is still male dominated and as a result it is the girls who suffer.

Naina_Manam

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 11:16am | IP Logged
It is because it's male oriented society and things have been happening like that and maybe will if the world is not properly educated.

I am not saying it's right, it definitely is not.... It's very wrong but that's the way it's always been.

See if the girl can't give a male heir to the family everyone blames her, but the truth is that males chromosomes decide if it's going to be a girl or a boy.

If a girl can't have a child again the blame goes on her not even knowing if the problem consists in the male.

So I don't know maybe women have to get together and be strong...but the saddest part is that most of the time women put on these blames on each other....

TiN24

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 11:52am | IP Logged
Sure they do! Men do have to pay for the consequences..............its called "child support".(hehehehehe)Just kidding. I think men may not have to pay for the consequences of pre-marital sex physically or emotionally......but they do have to mentally. And if they still don't realize what they did......then there's always karma.! Big smile

ashley1

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 3:08pm | IP Logged
If Pre-Marital sex is wrong, it's wrong for both sexes. But yeah...the bad consequences are faced normally by females. As we cannot change the whole world, we can change only us & may be the people we can, the people around us. So, never ever let Pre-Marital sex happen. Not even you are getting married the next week or the next day. Because marriages can break on the last minute & then the girl's life can be destroyed forever. That's what the hindi movies & shows are for. Learn & don't ever get involed in Pre-Marital sex. If you are forced, then break the damned marriage. Clap

honestwriter

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 4:55pm | IP Logged
I wonder why ethical issues only are raised in the debate forum? Anyways, here's my two cent on the topic you raised...
Women are fragile creatures created by God, the beauty that dazzles a man. She is emotional and strong but sometimes behave foolhardy. That's how they get caught up in such situations. Men today still bear the tag that says, "Men rule, women serve". People say that a lot has happened and we have advanced a lot but indirectly, everything points towards the tag I told you about. A wise woman is always cautious- she knows that people love to play around her and she takes her stance so flawlessly that she ends up being a winner. It is because we women take everything so much emotionally that we end up becoming a society's abuse toy. So girls out there, be strong! Don't crave for love- make people crave for your love and ultimately, you will come out as a winner and not a victim to the above cases. Your morals will make you strong so just think with the help of your brain sometimes... it really helps.. LOL Big smile

Best wishes,
Fatmah

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Posted: 01 November 2005 at 6:03pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by hazelgirl

well .....how much we say that india is becoming modern..it is still male dominated and as a result it is the girls who suffer.

true

hazelgirl

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Posted: 02 November 2005 at 9:48pm | IP Logged
Honest writer even strong girls even get into all this.Its not abt strong or weak.It s abt one's wish.
But yes agree with u that in these situations use ur brain than ur heart Tongue

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