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Posted: 29 June 2009 at 11:37am | IP Logged

I have a problem with this: i alwayz have a crush on a cute guy i c...n im not sure if tht crush is love or a attraction.....n if i have many crushes does tht mean i will never find true love or even love...how wouldd i kno if it is love or jus  a crush....

 
 
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Posted: 29 June 2009 at 11:54pm | IP Logged
u dnt need 2 ask dis ques.Wink
 
cuz wen its true love... ur heart itself ll answer ut ques. ... no1 elz...!!!
true love is d one wich makes u feel special...gives u sleepless nites....n makes u care abt him/her...lik u hv nvr cared for nybody elz...
 
if he/she gets hurt...u feel d pain... n vice versa...
so wen u r in it... u urself ll cum 2 knw abt it!!! Tongue
 
gud luck! Smile
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Posted: 30 June 2009 at 12:04pm | IP Logged
Those are jus sayings tht ppl say about love not everyone feels love the same way others do..some love is diff...n i want to kno wen its real...
BUT THNXS anywayz!!Star
 
 
 
Originally posted by SMITAKSHI

u dnt need 2 ask dis ques.Wink
 
cuz wen its true love... ur heart itself ll answer ut ques. ... no1 elz...!!!
true love is d one wich makes u feel special...gives u sleepless nites....n makes u care abt him/her...lik u hv nvr cared for nybody elz...
 
if he/she gets hurt...u feel d pain... n vice versa...
so wen u r in it... u urself ll cum 2 knw abt it!!! Tongue
 
gud luck! Smile
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Posted: 02 July 2009 at 12:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by PinkLady09

I have a problem with this: i alwayz have a crush on a cute guy i c...n im not sure if tht crush is love or a attraction.....n if i have many crushes does tht mean i will never find true love or even love...how wouldd i kno if it is love or jus  a crush....



help plzz..&& thnk you!Star
 
well I think its pretty simple. If you get bored of the guy with in say 1 month and all of a sudden you find someone more handsome than him then it would be crush.
But if you want to be with him inspite of all his faults/frailties and every other guy just seem to be not-so-perfect compared to him then its love.
 
Thats what i feel things should be. But dont go by the serials/movies because those are melodramatic stuffs like " you smell him here and there", "wind howling when he enters" etc gives me giggleberriesLOL
 
 
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thank you!!..tht helps alot!Star
Originally posted by Ambrosia

Originally posted by PinkLady09

I have a problem with this: i alwayz have a crush on a cute guy i c...n im not sure if tht crush is love or a attraction.....n if i have many crushes does tht mean i will never find true love or even love...how wouldd i kno if it is love or jus  a crush....



help plzz..&& thnk you!Star
 
well I think its pretty simple. If you get bored of the guy with in say 1 month and all of a sudden you find someone more handsome than him then it would be crush.
But if you want to be with him inspite of all his faults/frailties and every other guy just seem to be not-so-perfect compared to him then its love.
 
Thats what i feel things should be. But dont go by the serials/movies because those are melodramatic stuffs like " you smell him here and there", "wind howling when he enters" etc gives me giggleberriesLOL
 
 
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Posted: 04 July 2009 at 11:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by PinkLady09

 
thank you!!..tht helps alot!Star
Originally posted by Ambrosia

Originally posted by PinkLady09

I have a problem with this: i alwayz have a crush on a cute guy i c...n im not sure if tht crush is love or a attraction.....n if i have many crushes does tht mean i will never find true love or even love...how wouldd i kno if it is love or jus  a crush....



help plzz..&& thnk you!Star
 
well I think its pretty simple. If you get bored of the guy with in say 1 month and all of a sudden you find someone more handsome than him then it would be crush.
But if you want to be with him inspite of all his faults/frailties and every other guy just seem to be not-so-perfect compared to him then its love.
 
Thats what i feel things should be. But dont go by the serials/movies because those are melodramatic stuffs like " you smell him here and there", "wind howling when he enters" etc gives me giggleberriesLOL
 
 
 
dats quite true...cuz u can nvr get bored wid d one whom u truly love!
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Posted: 04 July 2009 at 4:19pm | IP Logged
I've never been in love so not exactly the best person to answer this question but let me try.

Crush or infatuation is almost always based on the physical appearance.  As you said a 'cute' guy.  You find someone attractive and you like him.  That's a crush.  You like him for a very superficial reason and that's their physical appearance.  The chances are that after a few days when you see another cute guy you will lose interest in the previous one.  Or may not be as crazy about him as before.  With crush the likness decreases over time.

If you are truly in love, you will love him for something more than him being cute.  You will always want to be with him, share your problems and concerns with him.   You will love him for what he is and also for what he isn't.  You will know his bad habits but love him in spite of it.

Most importantly, your love will only increase with time.

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lolzz ambrosia last three lines were hillorius and awesum... gud luck pinky for that day when u'll truly fall in luv with sumone.. best of luck...Smile
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