Originally posted by PhoeniXof_Hades
^ I mostly agree with what you have said Sandya, but tell me, even if we put a ban on someone marrying only for money...is that going to solve the social problems? I do not think so. I believe in repenting through suffering - let them go ahead and get married to a sixty years old, physically incompetent person, and be happy with the amount of wealth she will be surrounded with. But after a while, when she will realize what she had done, and how she had been wrong (unless she really falls in love with the man, and decides that spending life with him wouldn't be a problem) she will come to realize her mistake, and pay for it a high price.
If you had read my post properly, you would have noticed I stated it clearly that I believe in the "live and let live" philosophy only when it isn't causing any social, emotional, physical, or psychological harm to any individual. Adultery, infidelity, sexual promiscuity, etc is definitely a big cause for many of the problems of the world - and hence they must be avoided at all cost - no denying there. However, marrying for money does not always equate to those things. What if the woman
only wants money on her life, and can seriously, happily live with her husband, without the need to of anything else, and wouldn't be the subject of any harm in the society, as well - should we have the right to judge, then?
well ur situation does not click true here bcoz we all know a human being cannot live without love. human being is a social animal. ultimately they will set bad examples from far away they will seem to be very happy encouraging other women to follow the example and destroy their life. we will be having a majority of psycho women in the long run.
and yes i agree to the first part we cnt stop them just give a piece of advice. ๐ณ