Pavitra Rishta

   

hypocrisy..? (Page 2)

Post Reply New Post

Page 2 of 3

Page 1
Page   of 3
Page 3 Page 3

nikitagmc

IF-Sizzlerz

nikitagmc

Joined: 01 January 2009

Posts: 15334

Posted: 15 June 2009 at 7:11pm | IP Logged
Agree with u completely on many counts. But i think Sulochana's mother wants to get a 'perfect' boy for Archana to shut the mouths of all those people who think that Archana cannot get a proper bridegroom (Her neighbours were discussing it on the first day). She wants to prove that on no count is she inferior to other girls and should compromise on marriage when her sisters are bound to get good proposals in future
 
She knows that Archana has sacrificed a lot for the family and particularly for her, so she wants her to marry someone who earns well (That can come with education only) and can keep her happy. That seems to be her primary goal, since she always keeps stressing on a good pay package of the bridegroom.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

blackdaughter

Dear Guest, Being an unregistered member you are missing out on participating in the lively discussions happening on the topic "hypocrisy..? (Page 2)" in Pavitra Rishta forum. In addition you lose out on the fun interactions with fellow members and other member exclusive features that India-Forums has to offer. Join India's most popular discussion portal on Indian Entertainment. It's FREE and registration is effortless so JOIN NOW!

Salz.

IF-Sizzlerz

Salz.

Joined: 10 February 2008

Posts: 22264

Posted: 15 June 2009 at 8:30pm | IP Logged
you bring up quite a few good points i must say.

GoldenPanda.

IF-Rockerz

GoldenPanda.

Joined: 24 May 2009

Posts: 7668

Posted: 16 June 2009 at 6:16am | IP Logged
I agree! You put it very well!..

sushmac

Groupbie

sushmac

Joined: 20 January 2008

Posts: 58

Posted: 16 June 2009 at 10:01am | IP Logged
i don't know if our forum posters are in india or the US but ladies (and men - if there are any), education is not the only way to make money.
 
Teachers - with Masters degress make 40-60K here. Car mechanics, plumbers, electricians, construction workers can make upwards of $100K. and all witha  high school eucation or less.

snowwhite30

IF-Dazzler

snowwhite30

Joined: 17 April 2009

Posts: 3481

Posted: 16 June 2009 at 1:29pm | IP Logged

agreed.........

angad4life

IF-Dazzler

angad4life

Joined: 20 August 2006

Posts: 2920

Posted: 17 June 2009 at 11:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nikitagmc

Agree with u completely on many counts. But i think Sulochana's mother wants to get a 'perfect' boy for Archana to shut the mouths of all those people who think that Archana cannot get a proper bridegroom (Her neighbours were discussing it on the first day). She wants to prove that on no count is she inferior to other girls and should compromise on marriage when her sisters are bound to get good proposals in future
 
She knows that Archana has sacrificed a lot for the family and particularly for her, so she wants her to marry someone who earns well (That can come with education only) and can keep her happy. That seems to be her primary goal, since she always keeps stressing on a good pay package of the bridegroom.


ya, i agree. she wants archana to have a comfortable life after all the hardships she has had to put up with. i totally understand that, but at the same time it shows that she DOES value education because it is a means to earn money. i think what makes her somewhat of a hypocrite is that she acts like a "degree isn't everything" when it comes to her daughter, but the same principle doesn't apply to her prospective grooms.

apux

IF-Rockerz

apux

Joined: 04 December 2005

Posts: 6366

Posted: 17 June 2009 at 12:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sushmac

i don't know if our forum posters are in india or the US but ladies (and men - if there are any), education is not the only way to make money.
 
Teachers - with Masters degress make 40-60K here. Car mechanics, plumbers, electricians, construction workers can make upwards of $100K. and all witha  high school eucation or less.


True that!  I have many friends with bachelors degrees and are jobless.  Many uneducated people make more than people who are educated.  Education does not guarantee big money!!!  

-iPayal-

IF-Sizzlerz

-iPayal-

Joined: 24 April 2008

Posts: 13376

Posted: 17 June 2009 at 7:48pm | IP Logged
i completely agree with you on this one! it is hipocrit of her to want a guyswhos well educated and earns lots of money, while on the other hand she yelled at the guys family for wanting the same in their daghter in law.
 
good to see you here, seen you lots in DIDBig smile

Post Reply New Post

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category

Active Forums

Pavitra Rishta Topic Index

Limit search to this Forum only.

 

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.