Posted: 28 May 2009 at 11:08am | IP Logged
Shalgo and Ashiyana has fair points.But I completely agree with Jijaram!
"From the perspective of the characters and their personalities, their
responses have also been very different to the situations faced by
My comments were directed at the creative/writer of the
serial and their double values in trying to balance TRPs with making BV
a social commentary.
Actually, BV people are more busy in creating melodrama to raise TRPs than to give social message.
I have even made one post regarding it.. hehe..
I have always liked BV because even in the midst of the
ultra-conservative background, there are characters who have brought
shown progressive attitude and had get out of the restraints of rules
and regulations as much as possible.
But Sugna's incidents?!!
What message do the BV people want to spread, can anyone tell me? If
unprotected sex and teen-age pregnancy is an issue, then it can be
addressed through Anandi and JAgdish, ( after a two years leap may be)
if they have something else in mind for Anandi - Jagdish, then these
issues can be shown through Sugna-Shyam romance. If Sugna gradually,
falls for Shyam then in one way they could send the message that an
widow has the right to start life afresh. Infact a girl should take a
positive attitude towards life instead of dwelling in the mishaps of
The issue could have been dealt in a different manner and both messages of widow-remarriage and teen-age pregnancy can be shown in a more realistic and better way.
Sugna is still a teen-age girl . It has been told
number of times that teen-age is not the right time to bear child. As everyone pointed out. if
Gehna' s doctor could tell her to abort for her weak health, then it is
necessary for Sugna to abort the child as her body is not capable for
Otherwise, Sugna's fate will be like Taisa and
Rani jiji who lost their child and their capability of giving birth for
teen-age pregnancy! Of course, abortion has ill-effects, but if the
doctor can suggest abortion for Gehna for her health, why not Sugna?2ndly,
some other member has rightly pointed out in other post that Sugna does not even know
the responsibility of bringing up a child ?! She is only getting
emotional and stubborn. If parents cant fulfill the duties towards a
child, there is no right to bring a human being into this world just to
make him/her suffer?3rdly,
gettting married to cover up
pregnancy is an age-old practice. But WHY getting married at all if
eveyone is going to know the truth even before marriage?!!!
per Badimasi, they will tell the bridegroom and the family about
Sugna's condition. Now, we KNOW that when Shyam will be aware about
Sugna's condition he will marry her without uttering any word about it.
Badimasi or Sugna or none else are supposed to zero in
Shyam at first. Logically, they will ask families of their friends or
anyone close to them. Now, if they are telling the whole incident
before marriage, then what's the REASON in making Sugna married?
had a valid point!