got your post, will post my thoughts on this topic and others after reading asr namaz
for now g2g
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Originally posted by: sandya_rao7no way atleast not to small kids. when they grow up like above 5-6 yes but below that they are so sweet
Originally posted by: karandel_2008
In my opinion, it is not justified. On the other hand, many people in India disagree with that opinion. It may be justified in extreme cases, but it is not clear what are those extreme cases? I think that children can be taught almost anything without using physical punishment.
I think that physical punishment of children is a cheap shortcut and it gives a signal to them that a slap is the solution of everything. When they grow up they will remember this and this hard coded lesson may give rise to physical violence, domestic violence, etc.
In any case that is just my opinion and I am interested in knowing your opinions.
(I was thinking about this topic for sometime. If there is an existing thread on this topic then please close it.)
Originally posted by: Rage-Of-AngelsI think RTH covered most of the parts, ill share my point of view anyways.
Every child is different and only a parent can understand their child the most, whilst some need smacking to bring them on the right track others only require a good child to parent counseling. I actually dont believe physical punishment to be considered wrong, provided its done in limits and doesn't severely injure the child.
A child learns through parents modeling them, If you be too soft on them they may not learn..sometimes a parent needs to slap them to bring them back to their senses....heard of the phrase , spare the rod and spoil the child? i dont know how severe a punishment do you mean? certainly a slap here and there can do no harm? Gentle punishment along with strong foundation of love and support would surely help the child in the future...you cant love them all the time and let them away with mistakes..it is important they realize their mistakes and get punished for it accordingly..if you be loose on them in their young age, you might totally lose control over them when they are older.
Great topic!!!
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