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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 2:37am | IP Logged

Originally posted by mannjari

If Dadisa Also supports widow remarriage in case of Sugna, it will be by force or compulsion not by wish

yes i completely agree with you. the whole story got twisted. Now sugna will not go to school and every positive impact set up by sugna going to school will go waste nowCry

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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 2:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by somaninitika

I agree with smriti completely. They are giving messages at the end of each show. The message they gave today was the one they gave when they showed Champa's case...why repeating? Sugna"s pregnancy is like giving blow to all the hardwork of masiji,bhairon in order to change maasa.

yes i completely agree with u. Every effort has gone vain.

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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 2:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by somaninitika

I agree with smriti completely. They  are giving messages at the end of each show. The message they gave today was the one they gave when they showed Champa's case...why repeating? Sugna"s pregnancy is like giving blow to all the hardwork of masiji,bhairon in order to change maasa.


i agree too...all the good work has gone down the drain...just when we think the show is progressing it comes back at the same point.
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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 7:24am | IP Logged
now parents like bhairav and sumitra will think twice before giving independence to their daughters by seeing this.. thye might feel that their daughter will take advantage of their indenpendence just like sugna...
 
I really dont like this sugna's preg. track..... and that is too after soooooo long time...it must have been atleast 5 or 6 months when they showed pratap and sugna's scene of having physical relationship...  doesnt make any sense to me.....Dead
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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 7:33am | IP Logged
though there r mixed signals rite now, i think what BV is trying to show is as much reality in this scenario as possible.
in the rural areas, there have been cases with the underage gals becoming pregnant before their marriage.. maybe what they intend to show is the trials that these gals have to go through and the social stigma associated with it, along with raising awareness about premarital sex. i guess, another reason to show this cud be to show that gettin gals married at a younger age would be a grave mistake since many might feel that they are unable to deny their 'husband' his rights, cuz to them as well as society the guy is their husband, so if he wants to sleep with his wife, it should not be considered wrong, shud it? .. teenagers do happen to hav increased curiosity and awareness regarding their bodies, and an early marriage only bring the thought to their minds that "he's my husband, it wouldnt be wrong to let him do that to me."

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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 8:18am | IP Logged
I think that the writer is completely confused...he has a couple of points he wants to make and he is ramming them in with absolutely no coherence or continuity to the story line.
Phooli's aborted second marriage seemed to give the message that widows should not rush into remarriage or sit and mope around singing bhajans and reading the Ramayan. From that perspective, it made sense for them to send Suguna to school. Wouldn't it have been great if they had shown her graduating from college, meeting a great guy and getting married on her own terms? Instead, a romantic angle is introduced with this Shyam who is clearly being marked for a romantic pairing with Suguna. She is also shown as being attracted to him...
Now she is shown as pregnant. Does this mean that she became attracted to this Shyam guy within the first trimester itself? It didn't take her long to forget Pratap?
Again, what is the message? Girls should be packed off quickly after their marriage? Again, anti education and regressive isn't it?
I think that the writer is completely confused.
Again, the endless pregnancy of Gehna who seems to show no signs of it! Exacly what is te timeline here?
If it is short, then Suguna's budding romance looks inappropriate. If it is long, the pregnancy is ridiculous.
The whole Phooli remarriage episode was tacky and badly handled as well.
I am also completely frustrated with how they have converted poor Anandi from an intelligent and sensitive child to a nosy loud mouth.
Frustrating

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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 10:50am | IP Logged
well said....Clap i totally agree with you...
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Posted: 22 May 2009 at 1:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by jjairam

I think that the writer is completely confused...he has a couple of points he wants to make and he is ramming them in with absolutely no coherence or continuity to the story line.
Phooli's aborted second marriage seemed to give the message that widows should not rush into remarriage or sit and mope around singing bhajans and reading the Ramayan. From that perspective, it made sense for them to send Suguna to school. Wouldn't it have been great if they had shown her graduating from college, meeting a great guy and getting married on her own terms? Instead, a romantic angle is introduced with this Shyam who is clearly being marked for a romantic pairing with Suguna. She is also shown as being attracted to him...
Now she is shown as pregnant. Does this mean that she became attracted to this Shyam guy within the first trimester itself? It didn't take her long to forget Pratap?
Again, what is the message? Girls should be packed off quickly after their marriage? Again, anti education and regressive isn't it?
I think that the writer is completely confused.
Again, the endless pregnancy of Gehna who seems to show no signs of it! Exacly what is te timeline here?
If it is short, then Suguna's budding romance looks inappropriate. If it is long, the pregnancy is ridiculous.
The whole Phooli remarriage episode was tacky and badly handled as well.
I am also completely frustrated with how they have converted poor Anandi from an intelligent and sensitive child to a nosy loud mouth.
Frustrating



Veryu well said...infact I was thinking of making a post on this topic.

I think that the writers have taken some apprenticeship under Ekta mai to turn this good show into a average one with run-of-the-mill plots.

Its true that Sugna should have shown to be continue study instead of giving hints to budding romance. T But even if they want to show some romance and widow remarriage - then Sugna should be shown to take new interest in life, fall in love with Shyam and then marry him out of her wish. Infact, both Shyam and Sugna should have waited a couple of years before they get married.

In this way, they could sent a message that every woman has the right to live her life happily and being widow, specially at the age of 16, doesnt mean that one has to bear the pain of widowhood throughout the life.

Instead, they are showing Sugna's pregnancy. Teen-age pregnancy is a big issue specially in child marriage, but these issue has already been addressed through the incidents of Champa, Rani jiji of Anandi's village and Yamuna taisa.

If they want to send message about the evils of  teen-age physical relationship and teen- age pregnancy, then it could have been addressed through tales of Anandi and Jagdish after making a leap and showing Anandi and Jagdish to be around 15.16


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