Joined: 18 May 2009
So theres this girl Victoria right.. that i'm like totally in love with, and have been for really almost 2 years now. Anyways, we first met at work.. where we started talking and soon became really close friends.. I mean, close enough to the point where we would often even cuddle and sleep together(no sex).. after about a year of this I did something that in hindsight, probably wasn't the best idea. I just couldn't control myself! I basically spilled my guts and told her how I felt. There was this sort of awkward feeling in the air.. and in not so few words- told me that she really only saw me as a friend. OUCH. I acted like it was ok no problem, but this really screwed my head up, and I noticed after I said that we were still real close but she began to distance herself a little.
So at this point im in this sort of paniced frenzy. I start scouring the internet for advice or guidance.. and I came across this one website: dating.pcti-system. com .. Which is this online dating/attraction learning course type thing. So long story short I wound up signing up for it... Much of the info, lessons, and things it teaches you didn't quite click or make sense to my logic at the time. But after my amazing screw-up.. I was jus like f**k it, nothing much to lose. So I started employing these methods.. And long story short.. this shit worked f**king INCREDIBLY.. I can't quite explain it, this girl just ate it all up. All I can say.. at least for me, everything we think females want, or like, or what makes sense.. you can bet is almost the EXACT opposite. It's incredible. Women are really strange ill-logical creatures.. no offense to any girls out there. Anyways, after a couple months of this going back and forth we eventually wound up in a relationship, and even had sex a couple times.. it was amazing and so surreal it all happened so fast... so onto my question-
I guess with my newfound "game" .. I got a little too ahead of myself and wound up meeting this girl off myspace and ended up having sex with her.. Then one day Vic was at my house and I left my myspace page open.. she went snooping and discovered EVERYTHING.. I don't even know what I was thinking when I decided to go off and do this.. but she confronted me, I was dumbfounded lost for words, she smacked me SO hard across my face, told me she hated me n never wanted to speak 2 me again.. then left. I truly am sorry I could give a shit about this other girl. For the past week I've been trying to contact her every day and shes COMPLETELY avoiding me.. it's driving me f**king insane. I had everything I ever wanted and totally f**ked it up .. Is there any way to turn this thing around?? =( Help!
Joined: 25 February 2008
Joined: 25 February 2008
if u think u cn cheat on gurls and expect dem 2 forgiv u, den u cn jus forget it..if she does forgiv u she is a nutter.
Joined: 18 February 2005
Joined: 31 August 2007
Joined: 04 February 2005
Wow .. 1st of all if u truly loved her than y on earth would u cheat??? I mean using the help of the website to get her to fall for u is one thing but going behind her back and two timing .. that's just not on .. totally WRONG!!
My advice to you .. if she doesn't want to talk to u .. give her some space .. u should understand that fact that she is really hurt by ur actions .. u say u work together so I guess u must see her everyday .. keep a distance .. let her recover .. a smile and hi/hello is alright .. if she even looks at u that is .. let some time pass.
When u feel that u can communicate with her .. if not face to face, send her an email .. spill ur heart out .. tell her how sorry u are and how u feel about her … if after all that she allows u back into her life then u should consider urself very very lucky and vow to never ever break her trust again .. if she doesn't take u back .. then tough luck .. u should just accept it how it is .. u stuffed up and there is no going back.
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