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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 9:07am | IP Logged

hey guys...

Do you guys think that it is right  for a younger man to marry a older woman or vice versa??

With the latest age differancetated marriages...Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher & Katie Holmes and Tom Crusie about to get married....

do you think its right?

anjali.nair IF-Veteran Member
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 9:42am | IP Logged
i don't think there is any right or wrong age difference when falling in love. i certainly don't support women or men marrying someone very old for money but otherwise i am just fine with the fact that they are in love.

i know some couples who have 12-20 years difference and so much in love. a friend told me once that she likes the fact that her husband is 10 years older to her because he is mature and more understanding. i don't know how much that is true and i personally prefer a guy who is just 4-5 years my elder (not more not less).
Life for Rent Goldie
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Age diffeence is nting...........the main thing is love
TiN24 Goldie
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 2:24pm | IP Logged
Yeah, I would perfer the guy to be max 5-6 years older then me and no more. I don't want him to be younger then me or the exact same age as me...only older. But that's only personal preference........to each is own. You can't help who you fall in love with right?!??! Embarrassed
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 2:41am | IP Logged
I don't think that age difference should matter if two people really love each other.

I personally won't date a guy who is younger.....did it once and everyone called me a "cradle-snatcher". LOL So I was kinda put off after that. But I do not have a problem with other people doing it.

My bf and I are five years apart. He will be 31 in Jan and I will be 26 in March next year.

All in all, age difference should NOT matter. Embarrassed
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 6:44am | IP Logged
well as a muslim tell u one think our Ptophet Hazrat Muhammad*PBUH married a woman who was 15 yrs older than him so there is nothing in a man marryin an older woman but we have this trend tht woman shud bhi younger than the man
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 10:53am | IP Logged
There is no right or wrong in this , as many of you said . Its a matter of compatibility . Women mature faster than men , so thats why when she's in her early 20's , it may be a good idea for her to look at a guy thats older than her , and therefore who is of the same mental wave length . But as you grow older it hardly makes a difference . Another thing thats said is that women also look older much sooner than men , therfore if the man is older than her there won't be a time when she , the wife looks older than the husband , Though , i still think its not a big deal .

Personally i got along with guys slightly older than me - between 3 - 5 years , so i picked my hubby who is just 3 years older than i !! Embarrassed
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 4:28pm | IP Logged
what's the problem if a man falls in love with a woman, and he is younger than her? Ouch

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