no sympathy for Iccha (Page 2)

Thanks for agreeing with me. The makers of the show shud go and learn what'uttran' means. There are poor people who do not have a decent house to stay, maids who take home leftover food, old clothes, toys and are very grateful for that. My mother teaches poor kids for free and I ve seen a lot of parents who are trying very hard to make ends meet. They talk about their troubles, ask for old stuff that we have incl basic needs like soap and toothpaste. The makers shud stick to the storyline about a poor girl living a simple life make a success out of her life but shud stop with the sympathy drama for Iccha for trivial things. Tapasya is totally justified in not inviting Iccha to her party..Iccha is not her sister inspite of her family members dumping her on Tappu. She is just a friend and everyone has a right to make or break their friendship. It was a little sad but accept it and move on..don't get dressed up and stand upstairs so that people can c u. Just the kind of  friend who gets too clingy and hard to get rid off. 

Edited by gullicricket - 12 May 2009 at 3:32pm

bahut zyaada rona dhona ho raha hai jab bade ho jayenge toh phir toh torturous ho jayega :-(

i have gone thru all of the above posts and felt most of users(especially the very first one)feel that money can buy everything in life.they feel that iccha shud bear everything just bcoz she is being provided a luxurious life.They also feel that Jogi Thakur obliged Damini and Ichha by doing all this.My question is(sorry to be straightforward)what is the price of your father's life?come on,tell me.dont be shy.

Edited by payalgarg - 02 June 2009 at 4:42am

hey payal I agree totally that no person can replace ur father or no money can buy u that luv.. but I still feel that a person in Damini's position shud have taken monetary compensation and asked for a job in one of Jogi's factories.. and raise her daughter on her own.. that is when her caracter wud have shone and Ichha wud ve got my kudos. In this situation Damini has chosen to take the easier way out, she has chosen to live in a haveli and chosen to give her daughter the luxuries Tappu has, she has chosen to be a maid and live a life of dependancy on that family. Im not surprised that Tappu-Iccha friendship is ruined.. its because Iccha is living off her family now.. no wonder Tappu feels superior.. and has no respect for Iccha . Jogi can repent for his mistake all his life by supporting Damini but Tappu is not a party to his crime so why shud she be forced to accept ichha as her little sis.. Now everytime the mother-daughter duo cries its not sad but irritating coz they have chosen this way of life so suck it up now. Their story doesn't touch my heart now, I don't care if iccha studies, becomes successful or washes dishes in that haveli all her life. Its sad coz I used to like the show a lot.. but like they say its not drama if its logical.

icchha and damini are not there to get your or mine kudos.they are there to bring a change.being on jogi thakur's place how do u think he would have given father's love to iccha by differentiating in the ways he brings up his own daughter and somebody else's daughter and by keeping iccha away from him.as for damini she has helped jogi thakur in repenting his mistake.she was not ready for this.it was the husband wife duo who convinced her.as for tapasya,i dont remember if anybody from the right begginning has ever addressed iccha has her sis except tapasya.she was the first one to address her as her sis on her first day to school.then gradually iccha became her sister like buddy and at the end her maid's daughter.do u find it right to address someone like this according to your own convienience and then also insult her?till date iccha is not forced on her ever.tapasya is indeed on the wrong track and is developing a negative personality.tell me 1 thing.icccha lost her father because of jogi.tapasya will not share jogi.where will iccha go and why shud she be a fatherless child?

Edited by payalgarg - 02 June 2009 at 10:16am

one more thing  this show is trying to bring a change in the mindset of people in the society.if u cant flourish it plsss dont hamper it.it is not all about you and me  liking the show.if u say "I don't care if iccha studies, becomes successful or washes dishes in that haveli all her life" u dont even have a right to post something on this blog and i hope somebody speaks these statements for you too someday. 

Edited by payalgarg - 02 June 2009 at 10:21am

hey payal chill man.. im entitled to my opinion.. its a discussion forum don't get personal.. I hope u realise these are characters in a show.. take whatever social msgs u want out of it don't force it on others.. what silly people !!!

Edited by gullicricket - 02 June 2009 at 1:01pm