Ginny and harry as a couple??!!! - Page 7

Hi Nandoo,

@ Lalitha - When I think about Harry\Hermoine pairing that is actually the passage that comes to mind always.

Originally posted by: shellytt

@ Lalitha - When I think about Harry\Hermoine pairing that is actually the passage that comes to mind always.

 

Harry trying to let his best friend know that his love for Hermoine was purely brotherly. Also trying to let Ron know at the same time, that Haermoine was in love with Ron and had eyes for only him.

Hey Nandoo, nice to hear your opinions but I disagree.
I agree that Harry-Hermione would have made a great pair, IF JKR had decided to go for it, then she would have included that missing component of romantic/physical attraction as well. But it was evident that the purpose of of Hermione's as Harry's best friend was something more important. I know love starts from friendship, but love doesn't always have to be equal to friendship....it can only transform into romantic love if it goes beyond that. This last step just didn't happen with Harry-Hermione because they both had set their hearts on someone else. If you think realistically, Harry-Ginny and Ron-Hermione are very realistic couples, as in when you actually fall in love you don't go "okay let me count what he/she did for me and why he/she deserves my love"...you never think intellectually about them, it just happens and sometimes you can't even control it since it's such a powerful emotion. Hermione never thought intellectually about Ron...she just had feelings for him that's why she was able to forgive his weakness (and vice versa) And about all the things you mentioned as Hermione doing for Harry, she wasn't exclusively doing it for him because remember Harry's fate and fight with Voldemort isn't only about him, it's about ethics, morality, right and wrong and it includes the danger/safety of the whole wizarding world. She wasn't researching information only for Harry, she was proving herslef a good friend and a functioning part of the trio.😊

Hey Lalitha and Khushboo ......

First of all Iam damn happy to see lovely ppl around here and to my surprise , both of your names relates to me in a loving way ....u knw....Lalitha is my sweet cousin's name , I call her Lalli( if u love it and permit me...thn i wanna call u wid tht name.....if u just likes it...otherwise no problem...) and Khushboo....my good friend from my schooling....(i just dont wnt to tell u wht i call her when we both fight.....i guess u might have got it.... :) :) JK JK )

Hmm coming to our topic..... Yeah Lalitha, i did feel like i didnt touch enough things about Ginny but wht to do......Loving constraint restricted me...he he he....towards Hermoine. As you posted the reference from the book that Harry feels/treats Hermoine as his sister, that is the place where i was devastated. I dont have words at all. I was just dumb struck. When I was reading the series, I got the 5th book wrong one, and when I started reading it, I felt soo different from the original one, coz there in that book the unknown-authour wrote Harry/Hermoine 's love, relationship. Might be it made me feel like that but still what all the things I listed down there in my previous post, they all seems like a person who loves's Harry can do it, for me.

Khushboo,  What all you said about Hermoine is correct, she is doing all the things and researching/colleting the information for not only Harry but for the sake of the entire Wizarding World. Harry needs a person some one like that in his life as his lifepartner , who can help him , who can stand by him in worst cases, who is having a very good knowledge which he needs, who cares for him, who can do things before he can think of asking that thing to do, whose brain and heart works when his own stops working(coz of the terrific things happening around him or by the ppl who made his brain not to work). So, the qualities which Harry needs in his LifePartner are all in Hermoine. So, again my conclusion is Harry/Hermoine forever and ever and ever.

If feel like JKR wanted to give Harry a family , a family which he craves for , a family which he sees and thinks of having such a family for him, a family where the mother whould be like Mrs.Weasley. So, by having all this in mind , JKR might have thought of giving Harry the family which he wants and wants Harry to be related to tht family in some means.....which ultimately turns into Harry/Ginny pair. Otherwise it wont happen ....right!!!!!!

If Harry/Hermoine becomes a pair, there wont be any family relationship with the Weasley's. Other chances which ultimately reaches the same point is Harry/Luna (cant imagine), Harry/Cho (huh!!! Forget it).

Originally posted by: VirgoVixen

Hey Nandoo, nice to hear your opinions but I disagree.
I agree that Harry-Hermione would have made a great pair, IF JKR had decided to go for it, then she would have included that missing component of romantic/physical attraction as well. But it was evident that the purpose of of Hermione's as Harry's best friend was something more important. I know love starts from friendship, but love doesn't always have to be equal to friendship....it can only transform into romantic love if it goes beyond that. This last step just didn't happen with Harry-Hermione because they both had set their hearts on someone else. If you think realistically, Harry-Ginny and Ron-Hermione are very realistic couples, as in when you actually fall in love you don't go "okay let me count what he/she did for me and why he/she deserves my love"...you never think intellectually about them, it just happens and sometimes you can't even control it since it's such a powerful emotion. Hermione never thought intellectually about Ron...she just had feelings for him that's why she was able to forgive his weakness (and vice versa) And about all the things you mentioned as Hermione doing for Harry, she wasn't exclusively doing it for him because remember Harry's fate and fight with Voldemort isn't only about him, it's about ethics, morality, right and wrong and it includes the danger/safety of the whole wizarding world. She wasn't researching information only for Harry, she was proving herslef a good friend and a functioning part of the trio.😊

Originally posted by: Nandoo

Hey Lalitha and Khushboo ......

First of all Iam damn happy to see lovely ppl around here and to my surprise , both of your names relates to me in a loving way ....u knw....Lalitha is my sweet cousin's name , I call her Lalli( if u love it and permit me...thn i wanna call u wid tht name.....if u just likes it...otherwise no problem...) and Khushboo....my good friend from my schooling....(i just dont wnt to tell u wht i call her when we both fight.....i guess u might have got it.... :) :) JK JK )

Hmm coming to our topic..... Yeah Lalitha, i did feel like i didnt touch enough things about Ginny but wht to do......Loving constraint restricted me...he he he....towards Hermoine. As you posted the reference from the book that Harry feels/treats Hermoine as his sister, that is the place where i was devastated. I dont have words at all. I was just dumb struck. When I was reading the series, I got the 5th book wrong one, and when I started reading it, I felt soo different from the original one, coz there in that book the unknown-authour wrote Harry/Hermoine 's love, relationship. Might be it made me feel like that but still what all the things I listed down there in my previous post, they all seems like a person who loves's Harry can do it, for me.

Khushboo,  What all you said about Hermoine is correct, she is doing all the things and researching/colleting the information for not only Harry but for the sake of the entire Wizarding World. Harry needs a person some one like that in his life as his lifepartner , who can help him , who can stand by him in worst cases, who is having a very good knowledge which he needs, who cares for him, who can do things before he can think of asking that thing to do, whose brain and heart works when his own stops working(coz of the terrific things happening around him or by the ppl who made his brain not to work). So, the qualities which Harry needs in his LifePartner are all in Hermoine. So, again my conclusion is Harry/Hermoine forever and ever and ever.

If feel like JKR wanted to give Harry a family , a family which he craves for , a family which he sees and thinks of having such a family for him, a family where the mother whould be like Mrs.Weasley. So, by having all this in mind , JKR might have thought of giving Harry the family which he wants and wants Harry to be related to tht family in some means.....which ultimately turns into Harry/Ginny pair. Otherwise it wont happen ....right!!!!!!

If Harry/Hermoine becomes a pair, there wont be any family relationship with the Weasley's. Other chances which ultimately reaches the same point is Harry/Luna (cant imagine), Harry/Cho (huh!!! Forget it).

Originally posted by: Nandoo

Hey Lalitha and Khushboo ......

First of all Iam damn happy to see lovely ppl around here and to my surprise , both of your names relates to me in a loving way ....u knw....Lalitha is my sweet cousin's name , I call her Lalli( if u love it and permit me...thn i wanna call u wid tht name.....if u just likes it...otherwise no problem...) and Khushboo....my good friend from my schooling....(i just dont wnt to tell u wht i call her when we both fight.....i guess u might have got it.... :) :) JK JK )
Khushboo,  What all you said about Hermoine is correct, she is doing all the things and researching/colleting the information for not only Harry but for the sake of the entire Wizarding World. Harry needs a person some one like that in his life as his lifepartner , who can help him , who can stand by him in worst cases, who is having a very good knowledge which he needs, who cares for him, who can do things before he can think of asking that thing to do, whose brain and heart works when his own stops working(coz of the terrific things happening around him or by the ppl who made his brain not to work). So, the qualities which Harry needs in his LifePartner are all in Hermoine. So, again my conclusion is Harry/Hermoine forever and ever and ever.

Aww that's nice😊...and hehehehe I got it😉 well that's what my friend threatens to call me when we fight😆. About Harry-Hermione, I would like to say that doesn't what you said about them sound way too idealistic?😉 Sure, they are great friends but when you want roses you gotta accept the thorns. Think about this, even if Hermione helps Harry a LOT, does everything for him, IS he ready to accept her the way she is? (considering that he hates it when Hermione starts arguing or when her nagging nature comes into play) In contrast, not only is Ron ready to accept her argumentative side, they actually enjoy bickering with each other. On the other hand, Harry accepts the weaknessess and short-tempered-ness of Ginny because when you are in love, your weakness actually become adorable to your lover (sounds weird but it's really true in real life). Not only Harry accepts Ginny the way she is, he actually loves her for it. He appreciates her qualities like how she does NOT cry or become weak in adversities (Hermione starts crying...not saying that it's a bad thing to show your weakness...it's just NOT what Harry wants in his romantic partner). So I love the idealistic stuff you said about H/Hr as a couple but think realistically: Now that Voldemort is destroyed, would Harry want Hermione as his wife in a domestic setting? Would their married life be successful? Would they be able to discuss important couple issues without hiding things from each other? If some blunder occurs, would Hermione have the guts to debate with Harry like she does with Ron, or would she be afraid of Harry's temper (we all know his temper😆)
And like Lalitha said, you left out poor Ron hehe. If H/Hr had gotten together, what would he have done? His worst fears were Hermione loving Harry, and that was one of the reasons he left them in DH. If Ron's worst fears had come true, what would have happenned to him? Would he be able to live/love anymore, face life anymore alone, without his true love Hermione?😳
Anyway, I just gave some of my opinions. If you really love H/Hr as a couple, I totally respect your oipnion.😳🤗

 

Originally posted by: _LalithaJanaki_

Okay, I have just referred to the "Excess of Phlegm" chapter and you're right. Hermione does not call Fleur 'Phlegm", but she agreed with whatver Ginny said, which is just as "bad". [/quote]

The least that can be said is that Hermione is still less of the person to be at blame which doesn't completely reduce blame, but doesn't quite portray her to be as petty as Ginny either since Harry too agrees with Ginny's assessment of Fleur's character. Getting back to the point - Ginny mocks her future sister-in-law which does not reflect maturity. Not only is it puerile to mock someone because of their difficulties with language barriers, it is downright cruel to mock a guest.