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Posted: 16 April 2009 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by MusicalAiswarya

Good advice Mahi!Wink
 
Anyway, confront the person and ask them what they're problem is. (In nicer terms...) Once you find out why they're acting in a certain way, try fixing it. If it still doesn't work, leave it and try to ignore it. There will be people like that out there, but just keep in mind that five to ten years from then, will all these squabbles really matter?
 
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Thanks, Aish, and very nice advice!

I would say it's great to expand your friends circle.  Even if you don't like a particular type of people, it's no harm in having them as your friends unless there's something that really really bothers you.  I would say accept their friendship - you learn from people even those that are really different from you.  They may not end up in your Best Friends list but you'll have different friends and it will be meaningful.

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Posted: 16 April 2009 at 4:39pm | IP Logged
Thanks Mahi!
 
Advice: Thats happened to me tons of times! :) I would say to force yourself to study because it's necessary unless you want to fail. Find a fun way to learn it, like on the computer, or let someone else help you or study with you. Then take a small break if needed and go back to studying.
 
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(Haha...couldn't think of anything else!)

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Posted: 16 April 2009 at 6:20pm | IP Logged
That's true, Aish, unless you wan to fail you have got to study!

Hm.. that advice depends on what kind of embarrassing moment it is. But overall, I'd say keep your confidence high.  I know that in such situations, we usually are low in confidence but that's what gives people a reason to laugh but if you keep your confidence and don't feel or at least show that you're embarrassed and others won't say/do anything either.  Just act like nothing's happend or nothing out of the ordinary.

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Posted: 18 April 2009 at 12:51pm | IP Logged
Yep, and thats a good point there! I have to learn to keep my confidence high myself...
 
Advice: Hmm....there are different cases of sad times/problems. If it's because something has happened to someone, pray for them and do all you can for them. Try your best to make them feel like you care. If it's a generally sad time, concentrate on different things. Look around you, there are so many things to keep you occupied and many beautiful things! Life is really too short, because every 60 seconds spent sad or lonely is a minute of happiness wasted and never to come again.
 
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Edited by MusicalAiswarya - 18 April 2009 at 12:51pm

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Posted: 19 April 2009 at 2:38pm | IP Logged
advice on bullies/ragging

I beleive as long as ragging is friendly and fun its ok . We used to have funny ragging at hostel like dancing on a song and singing and little things which would reallyhelp us get along our seniors plus gives a way to get ur talents out .

When someone tries to bully u .. keep ur confidence ... there is nothing that makes one person superior than other unless we make ourselves feel inferior. 

someone can hurt you if you let them do .... bullying could be mental stress as well ...but if someone tries to hurt u physically ..talk it outto them why they want that .... who knows they might change their mind ..
or if they still want to then play defensive.


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Advice on personal space in relationships:
 
If the person really loves/likes you, they will understand how you feel and respect your needs. A relationship should always come with trust and respect, or it will end up terrible. Tell them how you feel, and if they don't listen, they aren't right for you.
 
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Advice on deciding if something is a crush or love

if its a crush you probably dont think about the person when you not with them ..and you enjoy company of ur other ppl as well dispite of the fact the person is with you or not .

when u love someone, u see that person in you..that person is a priority in ur life ..and you still dont miss them coz they are with you thru you..
saying this thru experience Smile

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Friendship comes in many different shapes, color and sizes. A true friend will always support the other person as a brother or a sister without breaking the friendship by lying, being jealous, being prejudice, and hating the other person for no reason.ClapClapClap
 


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