Posted: 13 March 2009 at 12:33pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _charu_
nahi i think Rajshri was right...Akshara shouldn't have behaved in this manner with a guest n tht too a boy who had come to meet her....Gayitri didn't take it seriously otherwise ny other lady would have walked away.....i'm not supporting Naitik's actions though....but akshara should have kept her cool.....they were fighting like little children but the discussion boiled down to "why should i bow down if i'm not wrong" Akshara needs to learn that every individual thinks that he/she is ALWAYS right.......so what if she had said that Katrina is nice? woh choti nahi ho jaati is baat par.....a girl can of course put forward her point of view, we're not living in a regressive society but basic manners yaar..where were they? whether we accept it or not, girls HAVE to make more adjustments bec. they leave their house and their parents.....they have a completely new environment , new people who she has to understand , n she has to live with them....it's better if she learns this soon
First of all I agree with Naitik.. Katrina is way better than Ash. (just my opinion)
Coming to the serial fighting over film stars and who is better is just plain dumb and that too when you are two strangers meeting for the first time.(technically it was the first time becoz that's the first time Akshara spoke to Naitik).And moreso when the purpose of the visit is in regards to matrimony. Its just plain ridiculous.
Now as far as the moms are concerned.. Rajshri behaved just like a conservative, girl's mother where according to her girls have to give in. She was not completely wrong. In Indian male dominant society, its a fact. On the other hand Gayatri was better. She asked him to be nice to Akshara and be polite. But even she did not ask him to say sorry to Akshara. Come on even she could have asked him to say sorry and move on.. But she did not.
And coming to the main culprits.
They were fighting like school kids I agree..
Akshara handled it well though by saying sorry for the argument but not for putting her point across.
The best thing she could have done to stop this argument was say that if according to him Katrina is better than good for you. Naitik would have no reason to argue with her over it.
I sometimes don't understand Akshara. First she will not talk at all when she will talk, she will argue and now she will keep crying that she is going to get rejected.. Come on.. just think before you talk yaar. IT was not Varsha with whom she was talking to, to argue like that.. I am not supporting Naitik.. but sometimes Akshara is just too difficult for me to understand her.