interesting thread pinky.....well i already found my valentine in my golden year which was 3years ago and he lives in Mumbai and is very well settled in with his career but am also planning to settle down there after we get married....we stay in touch via emails and webcam ok so here it goes
What should your perfect valentine look like?
He's 5'10" has black colored eyes and hair....He's a body builder so obviously he has this great physique similar to Aftab Shivisdani's in De Taali.....his hair is short, he grew it long a long time ago so I asked him to cut his hair short so he did and i can't tell if his hair is curly, wavy or straight because he either wears hair gel or his hair is a bit silky....his dressing style is cool, classy and comfortable.....i think he usually dresses casual.....I always wanted an Indian boyfriend with cute adorable black eyes, sweet charming style and good physique so he basically covers all of those physical appearance expectations of mine.
What kind of personality should he/she have?
I was expecting him to be honest, understanding, broad minded, tranquil, easy going, and a bit naughty (full of pranks and sharartein) as a result.....he meets all of my personality expectations but of course his own personality is a surprise package for me as he's really amazing......his sense of humor, his pranks, his teases and his acts adds the entertainment in our relationship....he's the shy type of a guy but doesn't admit it, he's easy going, so naughty, caring, kind hearted, outgoing and that's all i can think of right now.....so far, I really love his personality......of course, nobody's perfect but I just love him the way he is.....I love it whenever I make him feel special, he gets soo quiet and I always wonder what's wrong with him but later i realize he feels special....duh me
What are some good qualities that they MUST have?
The good quality he has are.....saying whatever's in his mind, understanding my situations, always being honest, clarifying my misunderstandings for the times we fought, throwing a joke to cheer me up for the times he got me upset, realizing his mistakes, being obedient (to my suggestions and advices which are good for him), caring for me just as i care for him and lastly.....loving me straight from the heart
What are some bad qualities that they absolutely shouldn't have?
bad qualities.....erm he doesn't have any bad qualities actually but the only thing annoys me the most about him is whenever he doesn't understand what I said, he doesn't even bother telling me the fact he's confused with whatever I said.....I want him to tell me where he got confused in my words because I don't want him to keep confusing himself all the time as that can kinda trigger to mind games (such as "may be she meant was this or may be she meant that" like having a complete different opinion with 2 different options).....the other quality is smoking, he was anti smoke but i have no clue what triggered him to smoke but I really hope he has quit now.
We have all heard about how opposites attract.. but who attracts you? Do you want them to be similar to you or different?
we're semi opposite of each other.....our personalities are slightly different but not much.....only difference is he's more outgoing then I am.....we both are hardworking, easy going, understanding, caring, honest and broadminded and etc.....we both actually like 99 percent of the same exact things esp Bollywood and Hollywood stars, Bollywood soundtracks, the same adventures and I think that's about it......the other difference is that he was born and raised in India whereas I was in America but am a pure desi where i can understand urdu and hindi both.
Lastly, post a picture of any celebrity who comes CLOSEST to your perfect valentine!!
Edited by xsweetbabygyalx - 11 February 2009 at 5:13pm