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Posted: 09 August 2009 at 2:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Knowalot2

Originally posted by lats55

Originally posted by Knowalot2

Love marriages

I'm sorry but i dont believe in arranged marriages (no matter how sweet or good they sound)
- where the girl is forced to marry or taught from a young age that this is the right thing- when it always isn't


you all r saying that u wud like to fall in love after marrying ur life partners (fairy tale land- real life is not necessarily like Cinderella or sleeping beauty!ROFL!)
BUT how do you know that u definitely will fall in love with this person? how do u know that this is the one? Maybe this person doesn't even fall in love with u! or may not reat U the way u like to be treated?
- not a safe option!


at least my love marriage u will be choosing a safe option!



good arguments.. but in india it works... as brought is been such a way that girl fall in love with her husband, due to that reason divorce rates in comparison with west is less.. in west there is no concept of arranged marriage but only love then why the divorce rate is 99% where as in india the rate of divorce is 1%..  practically it shows arranged marriages are more successful than love..


Sorry but i strongly disagree wid this
Success rates does not always corallate with happiness . A marriage may be successful but this doesn't mean that the couple are happy.

There are indian couples who are married for the sake of not having a divorce ("a so called successful marriage")...becoz the wife has kids and doesnt want to see them get left out. SO she SACRIFICES her OWN HAPPINESS for the sake of their kids... they haven't divorced.


depends what u mean by the word success actually!...a happy married life? or the length of how long the couple have been married for!



those cases you talk about is relatively less.. it won't make any difference to know in and out of a person and then getting married...in the end after so much of love they fight and divorce..
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Posted: 09 August 2009 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
 i dont think there is any difference in love or arrange marriage .cause it depends on u how make ur relationship strong. how u communicate with each other or how much u trust each other .so if u dont trust ur partner then it dosent matters ,any of the marriages wont succeed.
 
in my case i have a arrange marriage, but we had time before getting married 2 know each other better.eventually we fall in love with each other.n even after a year of marriege we feel same attraction 2wards each other so its love.touchwood our relationship is getting stronger everyday.touchwood Smile
 
so what i mean is it depends completly on u . how u want it 2 be.
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Posted: 09 August 2009 at 3:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by 5cents

Originally posted by serendipityusa


.......Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end!Embarrassed


Oh my god 5cents......Your mom is so darn right........Its how much love you build till the end....please kiss ur mom on her cheek on my behalfSmile.........that was lovely......



I will kiss my mom on your behalfBig smile. My thoughts on love......The more we love, the more we lose a part of our self, yet we don't become less of who we are; we end up being complete with your loved one!Embarrassed I have done massive amount of changes in my life for the sake of love, I truly believe that it's the most important part in my life nowEmbarrassed[/QUOTE]

this is one of the best and sweetest quotes I've ever readClapClapClap
Clapthank u both for postingEmbarrassed

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Posted: 09 August 2009 at 4:51pm | IP Logged
Both are nice in their own ways...but i prefer love
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Posted: 10 August 2009 at 1:51am | IP Logged
i will go wid arrange marriage....
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Posted: 10 August 2009 at 2:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lats55

Originally posted by Knowalot2




good arguments.. but in india it works... as brought is been such a way that girl fall in love with her husband, due to that reason divorce rates in comparison with west is less.. in west there is no concept of arranged marriage but only love then why the divorce rate is 99% where as in india the rate of divorce is 1%..  practically it shows arranged marriages are more successful than love..
 
good point lats
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Posted: 10 August 2009 at 2:08am | IP Logged
I preferred arrange marriage.....
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Both r gud in their own wayy bt i'll prefer ARRANGE MARRIAGE....

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