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Posted: 20 December 2008 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by doggiedawg

 I personally support guys being active before marriage. Heck, that's the only way they can get THAT out of the way and focus on other things 'bout her.Wink You dont want them to marry you because they were looking for one thing, got that done and out of the way after the first few times, and then realized you're a bore.Wink THAT would be shattering i bet!

For the girl, i'd say it's a no-no. Society looks at girls who're active in a cheap light, and who am i to not conform?Tongue A girl should anyways be smart enough to reject every guy she meets till she runs across prince charming. If she cant control her hormones, she's stupid, and who wants to marry a stupid girl? Know what i mean?Tongue
Wow this is a new view I can see you're looking throgh. So you're saying you suppot it 'to get it over with?' I cant say i agree with you. Pleasure is not a priority which you practise just to please you or to get emotional burden out of the way. And I also think you're being very degraing to girls. If guys can do it why cant girls? 'If she cant control her hormones?" what does that mean? And how is she automaticlly supposed to know some guy is her prince charming? the whole love at first sight thing isnt too common these days
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Abstinence is the only way. Marriage is just another excuse.
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Posted: 20 December 2008 at 11:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by xantia

Look if you ask a man this question don't expect detailed debate, BUT I will say this.
Would you buy a car without driving it first?


LOL A male co-worker asked me this once....and I replied that is definitely a personal choice....I don't judge others who are both consenting adults knowing fully what they are getting into....For me personally, it would be much more special after marriage....to each, his or her own....

And just to add, sex really is big part of marriage....I've had friends that have broken up with their boyfriends because although the guy had the desirable personality traits, they were not physically attracted towards them...people have also said that romantic relationships are just friends with sex.....Physical intimacy is a big part of marriage but of course not the only part....just like it takes more than love to make a relationship work!


Edited by apux - 20 December 2008 at 11:35pm

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