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Well, let's see most of the topics created in this section are related to love... I want to know why?  Why are most of our problems related to love/love life/ boyfriends/ girlfriends?

Why do you think most of us have most confusions related to how to approach the person we like?

Many of the problems are related to love life and confusions... Why?

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-Mahi

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Well, let's see most of the topics created in this section are related to love... I want to know why?  Why are most of our problems related to love/love life/ boyfriends/ girlfriends?
 
I think its because love is the drive for everything in life,
 
Husband to a wife, wife to a husband, child to a mother, father to a child, bf to gf etc..
 
Everything we do effects someone else in one way or the other, choices we make, and we usually dont want to hurt people so confusion arises out of our motives.
 
When someone really likes someone else they will alwyas think about them and never try to hurt them. will add more laterSmile nice topic!
 
 
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^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi

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Originally posted by -Mystery-

^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi



Mahii mahiii...Why are we so confused on this issue of making bf / gfs?

I think boys and girls dont know the "other side" to well and thats why allot of confusion comes out...

Like when a girl looks and smiles, "what does that mean" a guy might ask.

And when a guy says whats up to me, "what does that mean" a girl might ask...(thats usually means hi if he says it fast enough)...

But i think there are so many variables in delivering a message, and reacting that causes confusion, and then the biggest fuel to "confusions" fire is shyness...No one wants to express their true feelings in the beginning...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed
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Originally posted by -Mystery-

^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi



Mahii mahiii...Why are we so confused on this issue of making bf / gfs?

I think boys and girls dont know the "other side" to well and thats why allot of confusion comes out...

Like when a girl looks and smiles, "what does that mean" a guy might ask.

And when a guy says whats up to me, "what does that mean" a girl might ask...(thats usually means hi if he says it fast enough)...

But i think there are so many variables in delivering a message, and reacting that causes confusion, and then the biggest fuel to "confusions" fire is shyness...No one wants to express their true feelings in the beginning...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed


Hmm... true and very well said! ClapClapClap

Definitely a lot of confusion arises from not knowing what the other person is saying.  I think there are many subtle ways through which a guy and a girl can communication their feelings but it's always hard for the other person to understand them.  Like many times as you said if a girl just smiles it might just mean that she's in a happy mood or if she smiles shyly and looks down that means she's interested.  Now that might be hard for a guy to decode.  Same is true with girls.  If a guy says "Oh you're looking hot" it could mean he's just saying you're looking hot or he's interested in you.

And definitely shyness is there... For many people who are genuinely interested, it's hard to get the first communication get going....

BTW - your idea of a hottie is quite different than the rest of the world EmbarrassedLOLLOL (Look at your siggy box) WinkWink

-Mahi

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Originally posted by -Mystery-

Originally posted by AsliiGuy

Originally posted by -Mystery-

^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi



Mahii mahiii...Why are we so confused on this issue of making bf / gfs?

I think boys and girls dont know the "other side" to well and thats why allot of confusion comes out...

Like when a girl looks and smiles, "what does that mean" a guy might ask.

And when a guy says whats up to me, "what does that mean" a girl might ask...(thats usually means hi if he says it fast enough)...

But i think there are so many variables in delivering a message, and reacting that causes confusion, and then the biggest fuel to "confusions" fire is shyness...No one wants to express their true feelings in the beginning...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed


Hmm... true and very well said! ClapClapClap

Definitely a lot of confusion arises from not knowing what the other person is saying.  I think there are many subtle ways through which a guy and a girl can communication their feelings but it's always hard for the other person to understand them.  Like many times as you said if a girl just smiles it might just mean that she's in a happy mood or if she smiles shyly and looks down that means she's interested.  Now that might be hard for a guy to decode.  Same is true with girls.  If a guy says "Oh you're looking hot" it could mean he's just saying you're looking hot or he's interested in you.

And definitely shyness is there... For many people who are genuinely interested, it's hard to get the first communication get going....

BTW - your idea of a hottie is quite different than the rest of the world EmbarrassedLOLLOL (Look at your siggy box) WinkWink

-Mahi

 
So true, i think its always best to go with your feelings and have someone to talk too...
 
About my siggy, yeah its true tho...BookWorks/AP students (was not meCry) = hotties!! Geek = Heart lol..
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Originally posted by AsliiGuy

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Originally posted by AsliiGuy

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^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi



Mahii mahiii...Why are we so confused on this issue of making bf / gfs?

I think boys and girls dont know the "other side" to well and thats why allot of confusion comes out...

Like when a girl looks and smiles, "what does that mean" a guy might ask.

And when a guy says whats up to me, "what does that mean" a girl might ask...(thats usually means hi if he says it fast enough)...

But i think there are so many variables in delivering a message, and reacting that causes confusion, and then the biggest fuel to "confusions" fire is shyness...No one wants to express their true feelings in the beginning...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed


Hmm... true and very well said! ClapClapClap

Definitely a lot of confusion arises from not knowing what the other person is saying.  I think there are many subtle ways through which a guy and a girl can communication their feelings but it's always hard for the other person to understand them.  Like many times as you said if a girl just smiles it might just mean that she's in a happy mood or if she smiles shyly and looks down that means she's interested.  Now that might be hard for a guy to decode.  Same is true with girls.  If a guy says "Oh you're looking hot" it could mean he's just saying you're looking hot or he's interested in you.

And definitely shyness is there... For many people who are genuinely interested, it's hard to get the first communication get going....

BTW - your idea of a hottie is quite different than the rest of the world EmbarrassedLOLLOL (Look at your siggy box) WinkWink

-Mahi

 
So true, i think its always best to go with your feelings and have someone to talk too...
 
About my siggy, yeah its true tho...BookWorks/AP students (was not meCry) = hotties!! Geek = Heart lol..


Yeah it's said that at least confess your love.. because it's easier to live with a refusal than with the uncertainty that he/she could've been mine.

Oh so opposite attracts here? TongueWink

-Mahi

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Originally posted by -Mystery-

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Originally posted by -Mystery-

^ Interesting explanation, Arun.  But most of the problems are related to love that happens between a guy and a girl... I understand that love is the basis of life - love between a mother and child, siblings and so on but usually we have problems discussed with boyfriends, making boyfriends/girlfriends... So I wanted to ask why are we so confused on this issue?

-Mahi



Mahii mahiii...Why are we so confused on this issue of making bf / gfs?

I think boys and girls dont know the "other side" to well and thats why allot of confusion comes out...

Like when a girl looks and smiles, "what does that mean" a guy might ask.

And when a guy says whats up to me, "what does that mean" a girl might ask...(thats usually means hi if he says it fast enough)...

But i think there are so many variables in delivering a message, and reacting that causes confusion, and then the biggest fuel to "confusions" fire is shyness...No one wants to express their true feelings in the beginning...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed


Hmm... true and very well said! ClapClapClap

Definitely a lot of confusion arises from not knowing what the other person is saying.  I think there are many subtle ways through which a guy and a girl can communication their feelings but it's always hard for the other person to understand them.  Like many times as you said if a girl just smiles it might just mean that she's in a happy mood or if she smiles shyly and looks down that means she's interested.  Now that might be hard for a guy to decode.  Same is true with girls.  If a guy says "Oh you're looking hot" it could mean he's just saying you're looking hot or he's interested in you.

And definitely shyness is there... For many people who are genuinely interested, it's hard to get the first communication get going....

BTW - your idea of a hottie is quite different than the rest of the world EmbarrassedLOLLOL (Look at your siggy box) WinkWink

-Mahi

 
So true, i think its always best to go with your feelings and have someone to talk too...
 
About my siggy, yeah its true tho...BookWorks/AP students (was not meCry) = hotties!! Geek = Heart lol..


Yeah it's said that at least confess your love.. because it's easier to live with a refusal than with the uncertainty that he/she could've been mine.

Oh so opposite attracts here? TongueWink

-Mahi



lol.. YOur too funny...EmbarrassedWink
I really do think opposites attract, because someone who is not daring like a little daring traits in thier partner. Like i think i am too reserved, so knowing someone who is not and hanging out with them makes things fun i guess (not to crazy thoShocked...).



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