Hey guys this forum is so sleepy on weekends so i thought lets start another HOT HOT debate !!
We often make snap judgements about
people on the basis of their clothes . Infact i too am guilty of such
things . But is that the way to go ? I mean we see a woman in short
skirt , shorts , tank tops , spaghetti dress OR sometimes even
sleeveless dress and decide we DONOT approve and make nasty comments !!
Call her sluty , cheap , too modern etc etc !!
Then again we have some who look down upon women in sarees , salwar kameez , and call them a behanji !!
In hindi serials and films you see a
women with loose morals dressing in western attire or the heroine who
has a bad attitude . And its the heros responsibility to change her ,
including her dressing style !!And he does towrds the end . Heroine
turns good by changing into a saree!!
I came upon this debate idea when i
was reading in the Astitva forum how some members criticised the main
character , Niki Aneja's dressing style ." some member said " he lost
respect for this actress after he saw her in those clothes " Is that
the right thing to do ?????????????????????????
Should we base our respect on the
basis of her dress sense or should it be that we look at her as a human
being as a person . Her nature , her thoughts etc . Does a woman who
dresses in tank tops and shorts go to the mandir and respect her elders
. And does a woman in Saree or Salwar K have modern views ????
Let me tell you personally i am the
sort who loves being in Westerns when i am with friends . BUT
.....when i am with elders i like to show respect by wearing
traditional clothes .And i am carefull of what i wear on the streets of
Delhi , don't want to be whisttled at
I am a traditional girl otherwise who likes to follow Indian customs -
like festivals , respecting elders etc etc . But if i wore those same
clothes i wear with friends i know people on the streets of Delhi will
pass judgement .
Whats your view ??????? Whats your experience ???????????? Please share !!
request , please write more than " I hate westerns " or " i hate
sarees ". or something to that effect in your post . Just one
liners without any explanation are very confusing to understand !! I
mean say why you think what you think !!
Edited by indygirl - 08 October 2005 at 6:10pm