I like Raja too. from his Nach Baliye days.
He is getting changed. there is a lot of change in his atitude. I like him more now :-)
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Many ppl want Shweta to forgive him, just becoz he looks so nice in the house now, and is missing his daughter.
For us, this is his small mistake, that he fought with his wife.
But from a wife point of view, what she felt, it means a lot to her. It was their love marriage, and her husband slapped her many times, came home drunk, used to hit her. accused her that she is involved with other guys, insulting her, abusing her.
if a wife slaps a husband, and later she wins noble prize in all categories, and Bharat Ratna, All medals in olympics, or keep crying all the time, doesn't make her eligible for forgiveness in husband eyes.
Maybe u can forgive someone, but restarting the same relationship, and accepting someone again in ur life, that too as life partner, is not so easy.
whether she shud give him second chance or not. it's on her.
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And i don't understand one more part.
Is "Big Boss" a kind of show. Where the winner will be, depending on, "how worse u behaved in ur life, and then how much u cried in the house "
Becoz this is what ppl keep saying, Rahul shud get a chance, Monica shud get a chance, Raja shud get a chance. Rakhi says, give me a chance.
Yeah, it is true, that we shudn't hate these ppl, and shud not let them out of the house, based on their past.
But the same time, we shud not start saying, that this so and so person shud win, so that he can get a second chance.
I mean, what abt other normal people ? For example, take Ehsaan n Ketaki. they don't have bad history, and are not repenting for anything. They dont talk abt image change. so we feel, they don't deserve winning. Rahul,monica or Raja, shud win.
Give all of them 2nd chance. but on what cost ? The problem is, when we say abt giving 2nd chance, we are taking chance from someone else too.
If Raja is against Sanjay. and u r thinking, we shud give 2nd chance to Raja. then u r punishing Sanjay .
If Raja is nominated with Ehsaan. and if our thinking is, Raja shud win, he shud get second chance, he cries, he changed. Then why this is Ehsaan's fault.
Want to give Raja a second chance ? then write him fan mail, purchase CD of his bhojpuri movies, watch the movies he produces.
Now i am really thinking, abt his opening dialogue. when he said, he came to BB, so that later his daughter can see the show, and can realize , how much he loves her ? !
hmmm, so if sees, or pretend to see photo, or cries 100 times more, no wonder, everyone is going to believe that he loves her.
And then all ppl are going to force, and will try to make shweta to change her decision, to forgive this guy. coz they think, he is nice guy, and he loves his daughter. And if she won't forgive him, they will think, that she was wrong.
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Having said all this,
i like Raja.
But abt his personal issues. i dont even wish to God, that Shweta shud forgive him. Bcoz i don't want my intentions to affect her decisions. Becoz i don't find this right, "Sweta, i like Raja, and i think, he loves u, and daughter, so u shud forgive him, and u shoud live with him in the same house."
And i like Raja, but his repentss, love for daughter, doesn't make him more deserving than others.
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