Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships

   

What ACTUALLY happens on THE first night?

Post Reply New Post

Page 1 of 4

Page 1
Page   of 4
Page 2 Page 4

bewafa

IF-Dazzler

bewafa

Joined: 01 September 2005

Posts: 4879

Posted: 23 July 2008 at 6:20am | IP Logged
Ok, i know this section has been seeing a LOT of "first night" or "first date" questions...so  I am jumping on the bandwagon and starting one too LOLWink
 
The Wedding Night.
What actually happens? I'm asking not what you guys "think" happens, but if some of you know what "actually' happens? LoL
 
Like they ALWAYS make such a huge deal, the "suhaagraat" in movies and serials. But seriously, so many times you don't even KNOW the person ur marrying if it is an arranged...HOW awkward?? sharing the SAME bed...lol or does it  happen like in tv shows where the guy sleeps on the couch? LOL
 
And you know what's creepy? Family members decorating the "sej"/bed!! LOL! I mean, would be better if the guy did it himself...that would be romantic....but noooo the family has to butt in LOLLOLLOL.
 
If they talk, then what do they talk about? Or do they count the money they got durin shagan etc and open up all the presents?LOL I don't think I would mind knowing how much richer I was! Wink heheheLOL
 
LoL haven't you guys ever thought about it?
Actually, post away as to what u think happens too. It's be cool to compare as to what we THINK happens and what ACTUALLY happens.
 
Cheers!
Ena

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

snehajose17

Dear Guest, Being an unregistered member you are missing out on participating in the lively discussions happening on the topic "What ACTUALLY happens on THE first night?" in Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships forum. In addition you lose out on the fun interactions with fellow members and other member exclusive features that India-Forums has to offer. Join India's most popular discussion portal on Indian Entertainment. It's FREE and registration is effortless so JOIN NOW!

naz05

Senior Member

naz05

Joined: 31 March 2005

Posts: 496

Posted: 23 July 2008 at 8:08am | IP Logged
well hun you can do a lot on ur wedding nightlike talk get to know each other and stuff and exchange gifts or you could just go to sleep next to each other.....on my wedding night my bedroom was decorated like mad floowers everywer.... red roses on the bed.....it was actually quite funny.Big smile..cuz i had an arranged marriage i sat on the bed waitin 4 him..he came n sat next to me and we chatted for like ages he then gave me a gift i gave him his....and he took my jewlerry off...well you guys know what happens next lolWink....no need for me to say itSmile.. i thing happens a lot in our family is that everyone else is interested on what happened on ur wedding night more you are....

naz05

Senior Member

naz05

Joined: 31 March 2005

Posts: 496

Posted: 23 July 2008 at 8:19am | IP Logged
it is quite weird sharig a bed with a guy for thr frst tym....im like weres my freedom gone lolConfused...considering my hubi likes hugging most of the night

anku2cute

IF-Veteran Member

anku2cute

-

Joined: 26 June 2005

Posts: 17869

Posted: 23 July 2008 at 9:14am | IP Logged
TongueTonguetooo young to think this...heheheh...but yea ermmm its quite weird of u dunt knw d person wellEmbarrassed...well yea so i guess in india here d weddings happen at night....so u hv d whole day wid ur partner n next day u hv d suhaagraatTongueLOL....but its cool to have a sweet talk so tht u knw each other much better...and best wuld be going for a long driveEmbarrassedEmbarrassedEmbarrassed

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

fan09snehajose17

dream

IF-Dazzler

dream

Joined: 18 February 2005

Posts: 3334

Posted: 23 July 2008 at 9:37am | IP Logged
haha..kya mast topic hai yarr....mmmm..it shud b romantic obv....as we see...the bed is decorated with roses..the girl is waiting..then he comes..gives gifts...n then they talk..may b abt their wedding n all the functions..if its a luv marriage then they will b realllllyyy excited n thy will remember all those days jab voh log chup chup ke batein karte the n ab they r together..its sweet na n if its arranged then they'll talk abt their cllge days n x gfs-bfsWink...voh log kahenge nai aisa kuch nai tah bas frnds..haha..as i heard happened with my frnd's bro...haha..n baki toh sab ko pata hai ke kya karte he..Sleepy..but i wud luv to dance wid him..haha i knw its weird..but filmo me hota heEmbarrassed...haha

bewafa

IF-Dazzler

bewafa

Joined: 01 September 2005

Posts: 4879

Posted: 24 July 2008 at 1:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by naz05

well hun you can do a lot on ur wedding nightlike talk get to know each other and stuff and exchange gifts or you could just go to sleep next to each other.....on my wedding night my bedroom was decorated like mad floowers everywer.... red roses on the bed.....it was actually quite funny.Big smile..cuz i had an arranged marriage i sat on the bed waitin 4 him..he came n sat next to me and we chatted for like ages he then gave me a gift i gave him his....and he took my jewlerry off...well you guys know what happens next lolWink....no need for me to say itSmile.. i thing happens a lot in our family is that everyone else is interested on what happened on ur wedding night more you are....
 
on the FIRST night?? woah...isnt that mighty awkward? i mean, before u get to know someone bit better...? lol
 
so the movies ARE true? LOL u learn something new everyday. lol
 
thanks for that! how long u been married for? any anniversaries gone past yet? Tongue

bewafa

IF-Dazzler

bewafa

Joined: 01 September 2005

Posts: 4879

Posted: 24 July 2008 at 1:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anku2cute

TongueTonguetooo young to think this...heheheh...but yea ermmm its quite weird of u dunt knw d person wellEmbarrassed...well yea so i guess in india here d weddings happen at night....so u hv d whole day wid ur partner n next day u hv d suhaagraatTongueLOL....but its cool to have a sweet talk so tht u knw each other much better...and best wuld be going for a long driveEmbarrassedEmbarrassedEmbarrassed
 
LoL yeh, i aint plannin on gettin married anytime soon, but i was just curious, as you are. Lol
i think the whole concept of just having met someone (or ok, spoken to on the phone or whatever) and then sharing a very intimate moment straight away is something i cannot grasp. lol.
 
i think what SHOULD happen is that the guy should just come in with heaps of presents for the bride...LOL! Wink

bewafa

IF-Dazzler

bewafa

Joined: 01 September 2005

Posts: 4879

Posted: 24 July 2008 at 1:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by dream

haha..kya mast topic hai yarr....mmmm..it shud b romantic obv....as we see...the bed is decorated with roses..the girl is waiting..then he comes..gives gifts...n then they talk..may b abt their wedding n all the functions..if its a luv marriage then they will b realllllyyy excited n thy will remember all those days jab voh log chup chup ke batein karte the n ab they r together..its sweet na n if its arranged then they'll talk abt their cllge days n x gfs-bfsWink...voh log kahenge nai aisa kuch nai tah bas frnds..haha..as i heard happened with my frnd's bro...haha..n baki toh sab ko pata hai ke kya karte he..Sleepy..but i wud luv to dance wid him..haha i knw its weird..but filmo me hota heEmbarrassed...haha
 
lol awwwww...dancing...if u would be awake enough. lol, the wedding day, esp. indian weddings, it's just exhausting. but how cute, dancing with ur wedding  lehnga...DO take a pic of it when that DOES happen. lol actually, let the guy know beforehand, "yeh so if u wanna marry me, u gotta learn how to dance and then dance with me after that exhausting day we call the wedding" LOL
 
and aahh yes...how romantic...talking about the EX's. ROFL! That is GOLD! LOL

Post Reply New Post

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Topic Starter Replies Views Last Post
First Date Tips?!

2 3 4

-Mystery- 31 4098 01 September 2010 at 1:51am
By -ArohaAngel-
Prom Night : Ask your fav girl now!

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 39 40

cool_pooja 314 10524 13 February 2008 at 5:36am
By cool_pooja
What actually is Love?

2

Taify 15 742 27 December 2007 at 10:06am
By Taify
Love happens only once? datspreets 9 2077 05 March 2007 at 6:29am
By kal-el
Rejection lines (what they actually mean)

2

Star_on_earth 13 1919 12 February 2007 at 10:40pm
By CaLiiZ*DiiMe

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category

Active Forums

Limit search to this Forum only.

 

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.