Hahahahaha Raj.. Found a thread again π .. j/k
Let me cut paste what I wrote back then. πππ
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/391162ππ
Q β Does life really changes after marriage?
* Essential and major decisions that influence life / living
involve 2 people- not one It has a great benefit as
well as a downside to it, depending on what you prefer as a single /
ultimately plan as a couple.. there may be a change, affecting, diet, entertainment choices, exercise pattern, sleeping pattern, work pattern
* Constant sharing of almost everything (bed, comforter π‘, TVremote ) etc can be very annoying / very cuteee.. depending on the mood.
* If extended family is involved (in-laws / other relatives living
together), it can seriously mean thodi khushi, thode gham.. I can see a
lot of compromise probably expected there and perhaps big unfavorable changes unless compatible?? yet I also see a strong support system- favorable change?
* For couples living away from family, other factors may require some
sort of compromise- for eg trying to find jobs in different fields in the same city (personally, i think this has been the only change i
was forced to do.. and it was / is hard)
*
Familiarity - when you wake up next to the same person EVERYDAY, there is a certain some
sweetness on decline. one has to keep working on it. It is a BIG
CHANGE from being single / dating --> being married.
*
One change in your thought process is that u work and learn to STAY in
love. It is easy most of the tims, but at times, everyone .. even
people who eloped! will ask themselves "what the hell was i thinking!"
Basically, everything is not about U.. it is about BOTH of U, so yes
there are some changes.
Q β Why can't individuals maintain the same relation with family friend after marriage?
Lack of an understanding spouse and / or accomodative relatives/ friends
& changed responsibilities and time-committments/ constraints
I see no other reasons and I don't support breaking / substantially changing other relations
Q β Understand it's a new life but change in life holds same for men and women?
Change happens for both
Q β Are people thinking like this inconsiderate?
thinking like what?
Edited by mermaid_QT - 17 years ago
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